Friday, June 19, 2026 Juneteenth
JUNE 19 Friday Third
Week after Pentecost
Juneteenth-Saunter
Day
2 Chronicles, Chapter 19, Verse 5-7
He
appointed judges in the land, in all the fortified cities of Judah, city by
city,
and
he said to them: “Take care what you do, for the judgment you give is not human
but divine; for when it comes to judgment God will be with you and now, let the FEAR of the LORD be upon you. Act
carefully, for with the LORD, our God, there is no injustice, no partiality, no
bribe-taking.”
This
was what Jehoshaphat said to the judges that he was appointing. Reform always
includes justice. The Holy Spirit calls us to be just and merciful to human
needs. Today pray for those who are in need and may not ask for help. Today,
look for and act to address the real needs of all humans.
Hierarch
of Needs[1]
A
team of researchers at Arizona State University, led by evolutionary
psychologist Douglas Kenrick, has noticed that most people really like being
parents. Despite the challenges of child-rearing, Kenrick
reported that the warmth, the love, the creativity, the sense of purpose and
belonging—all of these factors and more make parenting the most enjoyable of
all activities. Kenrick’s team reported this breaking news, which is just a
ho-hum factoid to loving parents, in the journal Perspectives on Psychological
Science. Kenrick and his group proposed a revision to Abraham
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs which takes into account our deepest
biological drives. In the new Need
Hierarchy, Maslow’s fifth tier need Self-Actualization has been supplanted at
the top by a motivation which Maslow hadn’t even mentioned:
Parenting.
What Is Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs….and Do I
Need It?
In
my undergraduate days at the University of Michigan, the darling of the Psych
Department was Abraham Maslow. A psychologist and motivational
researcher, Maslow believed that humans’ most basic needs are inborn; and he
developed his acclaimed Hierarchy of Needs in the 1950s to
explain how these needs motivate us all. According to Maslow, our most
basic needs for survival (food, water and shelter) must be satisfied before we
can turn our attention to higher-level needs such as influence and personal
development. If there is a threat to our lower-level needs (a house fire,
for example, or job loss or nationwide famine), we will no longer be concerned
about higher-level needs but will instead focus on rebuilding the base of
security that we require.
Biological and Physiological needs
– air, food, drink, shelter, warmth, sex, sleep, etc.
Safety needs – protection from
elements, security, order, law, limits, stability, etc.
Belongingness and Love needs –
work group, family, affection, relationships, etc.
Esteem needs – self-esteem,
achievement, mastery, independence, status, dominance, prestige, managerial
responsibility, etc.
Self-Actualization needs –
realizing personal potential, self-fulfillment, seeking personal growth and
peak experiences.
In
the 1970s, behavioral scientists slipped in two additional categories after Esteem
needs:
Cognitive
needs (knowledge and meaning), and
Aesthetic
needs (appreciation and search for beauty, form).
And
in the 1990s, scientists took one more step toward a benevolent view of Need
Hierarchy by topping Self-Actualization
with an even higher need, the need for Transcendence. Once an
individual achieved personal potential (Self-Actualization), scientists
claimed, he or she would then seek Transcendence by helping another to achieve
Self-Actualization—for example, through volunteer work in a disadvantaged community.
What has emerged now, though—based on research studies conducted in 2010—is a
new understanding that devoted parents find the deepest satisfaction in shaping
the hearts and souls of the children who have been entrusted to their
care. While non-parenting adults may expect the rigors of child-rearing to
be an impediment to happiness, the opposite is true: Those who have
actually experienced the joy of giving selflessly to a helpless infant achieve
a level of wellbeing that is unmatched in human experience. Those who
patiently teach a toddler to tie her shoes or help a middle schooler to make
friends in the classroom, report greater satisfaction than do those whose focus
is personal fulfillment through career, marriage or other adult relationship.
Next in the pyramid, according to Kenrick and team, is Mate Retention– a
marriage which lasts– and before that comes Mate Attraction (finding that
special person). It would appear that all of our deepest longings derive
from the complex biological urge to reproduce.
Copilot’s Take
Jehoshaphat’s charge to the judges lands with a clarity
that cuts across centuries: “Take care what you do… for the judgment you
give is not human but divine.” Justice is not a human invention; it is a
participation in God’s own nature. The Catechism calls justice the firm and
constant will to give each his due (CCC 1807), and it warns that partiality,
bribery, and fear of men corrupt the soul long before they corrupt the courts.
Juneteenth stands as a national reminder of what happens when justice is
delayed, distorted, or denied — and how long people can suffer when those
entrusted with authority forget the fear of the Lord.
Saunter Day, by contrast, invites a slower meditation.
It is the feast of unhurried dignity — the deliberate pace of a person who
refuses to be ruled by anxiety. One who saunters is one who sees: the
vulnerable, the overlooked, the ones who will not ask for help. Such a person
walks with the steadiness of someone who knows that God hems him in behind and
before. Justice begins in this posture — not frantic, not reactive, but rooted
in the fear of the Lord, which displaces every lesser fear.
Maslow believed the human story climbed toward self‑actualization,
but newer research from Kenrick’s team — and the older wisdom of Scripture —
points higher. The summit of human fulfillment is not self‑expression but self‑gift.
Parenting, the shaping of souls, the handing on of life, becomes the true apex
of human meaning. The Catechism calls the family the “original cell of social
life” (CCC 2207), and parents the first heralds of the faith (CCC 2225). The
deepest human needs are not met by autonomy but by communion, not by
achievement but by responsibility.
This reflection lands close to home when considering
the many young adults living the DINKWAD life — dual income, no kids, dogs in
place of children, chasing experiences, perhaps chasing the fear of missing
out. Beneath that lifestyle often lies a quiet ache: the fear of losing
freedom, identity, comfort, or the curated life. Scripture teaches that the
fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the Catechism teaches that
freedom without purpose becomes emptiness (CCC 1733). What may be called freedom
can, in truth, become a subtle captivity — the captivity of self‑protection.
Addressing this cultural pattern is not a matter of
lecturing or pressuring anyone into marriage or parenthood. That approach only
breeds defensiveness. What is needed is vision — the witness of lives that have
found joy in self‑gift rather than self‑preservation. The richest life is not
the one curated for comfort but the one poured out in love. Seeds are planted
not through arguments but through the quiet testimony of steadiness,
generosity, and the recognition that responsibility enlarges the soul.
Juneteenth and Saunter Day together form a fitting
metaphor for this generation: freedom delayed is still freedom worth claiming,
and the pace of wisdom is slow enough to see what matters. Many move fast,
collecting experiences, building a life of motion — but not necessarily a life
of meaning. The call is not to force a different path but to walk with the
dignity of one who knows that true freedom is the ability to give oneself away
without fear.
So the invitation for this day is simple: pray for
interior freedom. Walk with the steadiness of a saunter. Let life itself be the
quiet argument that self‑gift is the summit of human flourishing. And trust
that the God who judges without partiality also guides without haste — shaping
hearts, opening eyes, and leading each child, in His time, toward the life they
were made for.
Bible
in a year Day 349 Holy Indifference
Today we
conclude the book of Acts, and Fr. Mike reflects on our deep conviction to be
the Church by serving all in the world, furthering St. Paul’s legacy of
ordinary service, a willingness to share the gospel, and a dedication to
following God’s will. Today’s readings are Acts 28, Philippians 1-2, and
Proverbs 29:25-27.
Juneteenth[2]
Juneteenth, also called
Freedom Day and Emancipation Day, celebrates the abolition of slavery in the United States. On June 19,
1865, Union soldiers arrived in Texas to deliver news that President Lincoln
has issued the Emancipation Proclamation, freeing the enslaved. Although
Lincoln's Proclamation was issued on January 1, 1863, it took nearly two and
half years for word to travel from Washington to Texas. By then, Texas had
amassed more than 250,000 slaves.
Since 1865, Juneteenth has been informally celebrated throughout the country
however in 1980, Texas became the first state to recognize it as an official
holiday. Shortly thereafter, other states also proclaimed the holiday. Today,
Juneteenth is a celebration of African American freedom, heritage and culture
observed through songs, communal cookouts and parades.
Juneteenth Facts & Quotes
According to the
International Labor Organization, almost 21 million people are victims of
forced labor today, 11+ million women and girls and
9+ million men and boys.
Juneteenth is a
combination of the words June and Nineteenth about the date that
slaves were freed in Texas.
The people of Texas
are informed that, in accordance with a proclamation from the Executive of the
United States, all slaves are free. This involves an absolute equality of
personal rights and rights of property between former masters and slaves, and
the connection heretofore existing between them becomes that between employer
and hired labor. The freedmen are advised to remain quietly at their present
homes and work for wages. They are informed that they will not be allowed to
collect at military posts and that they will not be supported in idleness
either there or elsewhere. - General Gordon Granger, Major General of the
United States Army, Issued June 19, 1865.
...I do order and
declare that all persons held as slaves within said designated States, and
parts of States, are, and henceforward shall be free; and that the Executive
government of the United States, including the military and naval authorities
thereof, will recognize and maintain the freedom of said persons. - President
Abraham Lincoln, The Emancipation Proclamation, January 1, 1863
Juneteenth Top Events and Things to
Do
Read the
Emancipation Proclamation. The proclamation, issued by President Lincoln,
declared all persons held as slaves within any State... shall be then,
thenceforward, and forever free.
Visit the Whitney
Plantation, America's first slavery museum, to learn about impact of slavery in
Southern America. The museum contains exhibits, artwork, restored
buildings and first-person slave narratives about the lives of those enslaved
in Louisiana.
Sing traditional
Juneteenth songs. These include Swing low, Swing
Chariot, and Lift Every Voice and Sing.
Attend the annual
Juneteenth Emancipation Celebration at Emancipation Park, Houston Texas.
Attend a Juneteenth
Musical Festival. These are held across the United States; great ones can
be found in Denver, Berkeley and Atlanta
Let
Courtesy be your watchword
Aung
San Suu Kyi’s birthday, June 19, 1945, is a leader from Myanmar who fought for
democracy. Her life has been full of challenges and achievements.
Suu
Kyi spent many years under house arrest because she stood up for her beliefs.
Despite this, she never gave up on her dream of a free country. Her story
inspires people all over the world.
John
McCain in his book “Character is Destiny”[3]
highlights the life of Aung San Suu Kyi,
who was the Burmese wife of an Oxford professor who came home to free her
people, and oppose the political tyrants who jailed her with courage and
decency and yet despite her mistreatment is for us a modern example of
courtesy. Aung San Suu Kyi returned to Burma in 1988,
after years of living and studying abroad, only to find widespread slaughter of
protesters rallying against the brutal rule of dictator U Ne Win. She
spoke out against him and initiated a nonviolent movement toward achieving
democracy and human rights. In 1989, the government placed Suu Kyi under house
arrest, and she spent 15 of the next 21 years in custody. In 1991, her ongoing
efforts won her the Nobel Prize for Peace, and she was finally released from
house arrest in November 2010. She has since gained a parliamentary seat with
the National League for Democracy party.[4]
McCain
says of Aung San Suu Kyi:
In
Burma, courtesy is a rebellious gesture to a ruling elite that has tried to
terrorize such refined kindness from their culture, and make a world where only
power matters, where there are only the fearsome and the fearful. Suu, as she
asks Western visitors to call her, never reciprocates discourtesy. She is a
practicing Buddhist who refuses to hate those who hate her because, she says,
she cannot fear what she doesn’t hate. In a statement she had smuggled to the
press, she explained her steady, almost cheerful resistance to the regime’s
attempts to frighten her. “It is not power that corrupts but fear,” she wrote.
“Fear of losing power corrupts those who wield it, and fear of the scourge of
power corrupts those who are subject to it.” She remained unmoved. (One must
never mistake her good manners and delicate beauty for a lack of will and
strength.) She was willing, as always, to show her persecutors every courtesy
and to entertain a polite willingness to consider their concerns as they
discussed the future of their country. “Confrontation,” she told a Time
magazine reporter, “comes about because there is no other way to settle
differences. If there is a channel open for settling differences, there should
be no need for confrontation.” And when she was asked how cruelly she had been
treated by the regime, she responded, “I have never been treated cruelly.” But
the regime, the bullies who are destroying the country and are so afraid of
this one small woman and her implacable determination, would not acquiesce to
any plan that might result in their long-overdue loss of power. Recently,
reports have surfaced that the tyrants are again considering the release of
Burma’s national heroine. Perhaps they will soon knock at the door of her home
again. I have no doubt that when they do she will receive them with perfect
courtesy, not that they deserve it. But she does not extend her courtesy as a
sign of respect for them or their power, but to show, yet again, that they
cannot make her become the only type of person they understand, one of the
fearful or one of the fearsome. She is merely, steadfastly, reaching out to
beauty to banish ugliness from her sight and the lives of her countrymen.
Sauntering Day[5]
“I
think that I cannot preserve my health and spirits unless I spend four hours a
day at least – and it is commonly more than that – sauntering through the woods
and over the hills and fields, absolutely free from all worldly engagements.”
~ Henry David Thoreau
The
world around us is moving at such a hectic pace that we often forget to slow
down and smell the proverbial roses. Even our walk is at high speed, pushing
every inch of speed we can out of what is otherwise the most leisurely of modes
of locomotion. It isn’t just an opportunity for us to remember to walk it is,
more importantly, an opportunity for us to take a truly relaxed tack to the day
and choose to saunter.
History of Sauntering Day
Saunter: v, a walk in a slow, relaxed manner,
without hurry or effort.
This
holiday was formed by W.T. Rabe in 1979 as a response to the sworn enemy of the
Saunter, jogging. Jogging is a grueling attack on movement, with rapidity and
effort being the purpose at hand, and all joy being drained from getting around
by making each step as painful as possible. Perhaps we’re biased, but we
believe the saunter to be the unquestionably superior alternative. Sauntering
doesn’t just mean walking; it means walking as though the weight of the world
has been lifted from your shoulders. It means being free from stress and
strain, and instead focusing on the pure joy of walking. In fact, sauntering
specifically implies that you will be moving in a joyful manner.
Sauntering
Day is your opportunity to head out into the world and approach it with a
deeply relaxed air, a moment of pure clarity and joy, all while enjoying the
beautiful world around you and everything it has to offer.
How to Celebrate Sauntering Day
Give
yourself plenty of time today and do so with the intent of relaxing and truly
enjoying your journey to wherever it is you have to go. Saunter casually with
pure relaxation and take in the scents and sights. Greet others, and don’t let
their urge to move quickly infect yours. In fact, see if you can get them to
slow down and join you on your happy little saunter. The world will be better
for it, and you’ll be happier for it. Sauntering Day is your opportunity to
leave all the rush behind and just… Saunter… through your day.
Fitness Friday Wim Hof's Workout Routine[6]
Becoming an Iceman like
Wim Hof needs a solid discipline, especially when it comes to your workout
routine. A man like him can breathe underwater for about 6 minutes and sit in
an ice bath for about 2 hours while still maintaining his normal body temperature.
I’m pretty sure you’re all
curious as to how an extreme athlete works out:
Wake
Up and Stretch
Hof stretches his back and
tough his toes. He then reaches the sky standing on his toes, holds for three
seconds, and repeats it twice.
Power
Breathing
Next, he takes a 30-40
slow, steady breath. He then followed it with a 10-count holding on to exhale
and take a breath, and then hold a count of 10 once again. He repeats it four
times and meditates for at least five minutes.
Cold
Shower
The most important part of
his workout routine is taking a cold shower. When he doesn’t have enough time,
he sometimes combines power breathing while showering. If you want to follow a
Wim Hof method, don’t ever skip this part.
Wim
Hof's Breathing Exercise:
Looking for a quiet place
to sit or lie down is the first thing that Hof is doing. There should be no
distractions and minimal noise in that place so that he will be comfortable
while exercising. Then, he follows these four steps:
·
Step
1: Power Breaths
Here, Hof starts his
exercise with 30-40 breaths (inhale and exhale). It must be slow and steady,
making sure his breathing is neither deep or shallow. When performing power
breaths, you need to imagine being blowing up a balloon and need to picture it
out as if your body is being concentrated with fresh oxygen.
During this process, it is
normal if you feel tingly or lightheaded.
·
Step
2: Hold Your Breath
Once Hof completes the
first step, he empties his lungs and holds his breath as long as he can. To
monitor how long he can hold his breath and improvement with the time, he is
using a stopwatch to check it. If you’re in this step, don’t focus too much on
time or feel anxious if your time doesn’t increase quickly.
·
Step
3: Breathe In
After Hof holds his breath
until such time he feels a gasp reflex, he then inhales for about 10 seconds.
Next is, he holds his breath for about 10-15 seconds. He usually repeats this
step 1-4 rounds.
·
Step
4: Meditate
Once he is done with all
the rounds of power breathing, he immediately meditates for a minimum of 5
minutes. Here, it would be best if you close your eyes then focus on your
breathing. Do your very best to block out any distracting thoughts and sounds
around.
As Wim Hof said, this will
be difficult at first, but it will become easier with constant practice. He
believes that practicing his breathing and meditation techniques can help cure
and prevent more diseases. It can also help in improving the quality of life,
including having better sleep at night.
Around
the Corner
“The
Spirit of the Lord is upon me,
because
he has anointed me
to
bring glad tidings to the poor.
He
has sent me to proclaim liberty to captives
and
recovery of sight to the blind,
to
let the oppressed go free, (Luke 4:18)
Cheat: National
Steakhouse Month “make
it surf and turf”
Stay at home: Soup
Catholic
Recipe: Eggplant Gratin
Spirit Hour: Bordeaux
Red Wine in honor of Saint
Paulinus of Nola
Get an indulgence
June
is national Accordion Month
June
is all about celebrating a special musical gem—it’s National Accordion
Awareness Month! This month, the accordion is the focus of the spotlight, a
unique and versatile instrument that adds a rich sound to various music styles.
From folk tunes to polka and beyond, the accordion has a special place in the hearts of music enthusiasts. Nicole Notes-My father relayed the following story to me. That my mother’s brother was very good at the accordion and brought it to a park in Fort Huachuca and played 4 hours and people danced and had a great time. An Italian Lawrence Welk. My Mother played the piano and her brother played the accordion.
Party in the Park
Funny these people even look like my mother and uncle
Audie Murphy, born June 20, 1925
During his lifetime he feared no one, nor was anyone
able to intimidate his will.
Audie Murphy’s favorite weapon was an M1 Carbine
He was also a Movie Star
Do not fear struggle;
courage itself often intimidates temptations, and they dare not attack us. Courage, God is.
Bucket List:
Military Hop
NSA NAPLES (IT) INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT PASSENGER
TERMINAL
When boredom and discouragement
beat against your heart, run away from yourself and hide in My heart.
Foodie:
Sfogliatelle
Great
Gas: Tuscan
White Bean and Garlic Soup
Spirit
hour: Chanti
Wine
It’s OK to have a
Martini or two
Daily
Devotions
Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them
in fasting: Reparations
for offenses and blasphemies against God the Sacred Heart of Jesus
Litany
of the Most Precious
Blood of Jesus
Offering to
the sacred heart of Jesus
Rosary
[1]http://www.catholiclane.com/maslows-hierarchy-revisited-parenthoods-on-top/maslows-need-hierarchy-revision/
[3] McCain, John and Salter, Mark. (2005)
Character is destiny. Random House, New York
[5]https://www.daysoftheyear.com/days/sauntering-day/
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