Friday, September 19, 2025

NIC’s Corner

 

The work of justice will be peace, the effect of justice, calm and security forever. Isaiah 32:17

·         How to celebrate Sep 19th

o   Arr matey! Set sail on a day of adventure fit for the high seas. Start by greeting your crew with hearty pirate phrases to set the mood. Embrace the swashbuckling spirit and dress up in makeshift pirate costumes using old clothes and bandanas. Engage in fun activities like a treasure hunt in your backyard or local park, with clues leading to a hidden “treasure chest” filled with treats. Keep the pirate theme going with a movie marathon featuring classic pirate films. Serve up some rum-less grog and pretend you’re celebrating aboard a pirate ship.

o   Lights, camera, action! Transform your living room into a cozy home theater for a movie marathon. Pick out a mix of classic films or showcase independent cinema, creating your very own Wales International Film Festival. Don’t forget the popcorn and movie snacks for the full cinematic experience. Discuss and analyze the films with your fellow cinephiles, sharing thoughts and recommendations.

o   End the day on a sweet note by celebrating National Butterscotch Pudding Day. Whip up a quick and easy batch of homemade butterscotch pudding or grab a ready-made option from the store. Gather around the table with loved ones and enjoy this delicious dessert together, savoring each spoonful. Share stories and memories while indulging in this comforting treat.

 

SEPTEMBER 19 Ember Friday

Our Lady Of La Salette-Saint Januarius, Bishop & Martyr


Psalm 49, Verse 6-7

Why should I FEAR in evil days, with the iniquity of my assailants surrounding me, of those who trust in their wealth and boast of their abundant riches?

 

Trust in Christ our savior and live the virtues of our Lady: humility, generosity, chastity, patience, temperance and love of fellow man. Do not put your faith in coin for the bankruptcy of our cultural heart is that we allow the innocent to be killed in this nation. God cries over the sacrifices of future unborn children for the dreams of the mother. No amount of future happiness or gain in independence is worth the life of an innocent. Know that life is greater than liberty and liberty is greater than wealth.

 

Beloved: Teach and urge these things. Whoever teaches something different and does not agree with the sound words of our Lord Jesus Christ and the religious teaching is conceited, understanding nothing, and has a morbid disposition for arguments and verbal disputes. From these come envy, rivalry, insults, evil suspicions, and mutual friction among people with corrupted minds, who are deprived of the truth, supposing religion to be a means of gain. Indeed, religion with contentment is a great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, just as we shall not be able to take anything out of it. If we have food and clothing, we shall be content with that. Those who want to be rich are falling into temptation and into a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires, which plunge them into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is the root of all evils, and some people in their desire for it have strayed from the faith and have pierced themselves with many pains. But you, man of God, avoid all this. Instead, pursue righteousness, devotion, faith, love, patience, and gentleness. Compete well for the faith. Lay hold of eternal life, to which you were called when you made the noble confession in the presence of many witnesses. (Tm. 6:2-12)

 

If we truly wish to make our nation great again, we ourselves must grow in holiness and then in turn our families will build holy communities, and holy communities will build a Holy Nation.

 

Copilot’s Take 

Commentary: Ember Friday with Our Lady of La Salette & Saint Januarius

Theme: Holiness in a Culture of Wealth and Wounding

On this Ember Friday, the Church invites us to pause, fast, and reflect—not merely on the changing seasons of nature, but on the shifting seasons of the soul. The station church “With the Twelve Apostles” reminds us that we are not alone in this struggle. We stand in communion with those who bore witness before us, even unto martyrdom.

💧 The Tears of La Salette

Our Lady’s apparition at La Salette is not a gentle whisper—it is a weeping mother’s lament. She mourns a world that has forgotten Sabbath, scorned reverence, and traded innocence for indulgence. Her virtues—humility, generosity, chastity, patience, temperance, and love—are not quaint ideals but spiritual weapons against a culture that glorifies wealth and autonomy at the expense of life itself.

“God cries over the sacrifices of future unborn children for the dreams of the mother.”


This is not condemnation—it is compassion. It is the voice of a God who grieves, not a judge who scolds. And it is a call to reorder our values:

Life > Liberty > Wealth.

A hierarchy not of oppression, but of sacred priority. 

🩸 The Blood of Januarius

Saint Januarius, whose blood miraculously liquefies, reminds us that martyrdom is not a relic—it is a present reality. His feast is a challenge to live visibly, sacrificially, and courageously. In a world that tempts us to privatize faith and monetize virtue, his witness says: Faith must be public, and holiness must be costly.

📜 Paul’s Exhortation to Timothy

The passage from 1 Timothy 6 is a spiritual diagnostic. It names the sickness—envy, rivalry, greed—and prescribes the cure:

·         Avoid: conceit, disputes, corruption

·         Pursue: righteousness, devotion, faith, love, patience, gentleness

·         Compete well: not for gain, but for eternal life

This is a rule of life for the man of God, the woman of virtue, the family seeking holiness.

🕊️ A Holy Nation Begins at Home

“If we truly wish to make our nation great again, we ourselves must grow in holiness…”


This is not political rhetoric—it is spiritual strategy. Holiness is not imposed from above; it is cultivated from within. Holy individuals form holy families. Holy families form holy communities. Holy communities form a Holy Nation.


EMBER FRIDAY Station "With the Twelve Apostles"[1]

Who is wise, and he shall understand these things? (Epistle)

The Church leads us today to the "the twelve apostles," on whom the Lord conferred His power to forgive and retain sins. Bearers they are of those precious keys that open the merciful heart of God as well as the contrite heart of man, uniting the latter to the former by means of the cleansing and sanctifying blood of Jesus Christ.

Formerly the reconciliation of penitents on Maundy Thursday took place in this stational church of "the twelve apostles." Here sinners who had undergone their prescribed course of penance were granted on that day the remission of all their sins and were admitted once more to full participation in the eucharistic Banquet. "Ex-communication" was turned into "Communication" by the keys which the Lord had placed in the hands of His apostles and, through them, in the hands of His Church.

With the penitential spirit of the penitents of old, and with the sorrow and humility of Mary Magdalen (gospel), let us keep this ember Friday. Often do we commit sins, but how often do we perform penance for them? "Return, O Israel, to the Lord thy God; for thou hast fallen down by thy iniquity" (epistle). No the "Assyria" of worldly achievements, nor the high "horses" of worldly ambitions, nor the "gods"--money, position, human applaus--"the works of our hands shall save us" (epistle), but penance, faith and love. "Many sins are forgiven her, because she hath loved much. Thy faith hath made thee safe; go in peace" (gospel).

This is a day of fast and abstinence. Let us gladly observe both. Let the heart of them rejoice that seek the Lord and be strengthened; seek His face ever more (introit). This ember Friday is an appropriate occasion for giving our weekly "Friday-abstinence" a new spirit. So often we observe the day thoughtlessly--perhaps even reluctantly. On the Great Friday the Good Shepherd gave up His flesh and blood for His sheep. In gratitude for such love His sheep give up every Friday flesh-meats for their Good Shepherd. Observing abstinence in that spirit will gladden both the Good Shepherd and His sheep; will make us "bring forth fruits worthy of penance"; will widen and deepen the spirit of repentance to the end that "the gifts of our fasting will be pleasing in God’s sight, and atoning for our sins will make us worthy of God's grace and lead us to the eternal happiness promised by Him" (secret).

Give your soul a new direction by a fruitful "ember confession." The more humility and sorrow we carry into the confessional, the more peace and joy we shall carry out therefrom. The sacrament of penance is the sacrament of liberty which frees us from the disgracing chains of our sins. Nothing approaches innocence more closely than a courageous, sincere confession of our guilt. True humility and sorrow are oil from the Holy Spirit which make the "keys of forgiveness" turn with heavenly smoothness. "Remove from me reproach and contempt, because I have sought out Thy commandments, O Lord; for They testimonies are my meditation" (communion).

"Who is wise, and he shall understand these things?"

Our Lady of La Salette


On September 19, 1846, the Blessed Virgin Mary appeared to Maximin Giraud and Melanie Calvat on the mountain of La Salette, France. After thorough investigation the Catholic Church gave approval to the message and secret of La Salette as written by Melanie. The account was published in Lecce on November 15, 1879, with the imprimatur of Bishop Zola of Lecce. Mary's message was much the same as at Fatima, "If my people do not wish to submit themselves, I am forced to let go of the hand of my Son. It is so heavy and weighs me down so much I can no longer keep hold of it." She lamented with tears those who do not keep Sunday holy and who take the name of the Lord in vain. She indicated that if men did not stop offending Our Lord the potato crop would fail. She gave Maximin his secret which he never revealed. She then turned to Melanie and gave her a secret which Melanie revealed 30 years later only to the Holy Father, who gave orders that it was never to be revealed.
 

St. Januarius[2] 

Little is known about St. Januarius. He was Bishop of Benevento in Campania. He died near Naples, about the year 305, martyred under the persecution of Emperor Diocletian. Around the year 400 the relics of St. Januarius were moved to Naples, which honors Januarius as a patron saint. He supposedly protected Naples from a threatened eruption of the volcano Mt. Vesuvius. The "miracle of Januarius" has world-wide fame. At least three times a year—on his feast day, December 16 and the first Sunday of May—the sealed vial with congealed blood of the saint liquifies, froths and bubbles up. This miraculous event has occurred every year, with rare exceptions. Popular tradition holds that the liquefaction is a sign that the year will be preserved from disasters. (In 1939, the beginning of World War II, the blood did not bubble up.) 

Things to Do: 

·         Find out more about this "miracle of Januarius", including pictures.

·         Have an Italian dinner.

·         If you live close to New York city you can participate in The Feast of San Gennaro celebrated in lower Manhattan.

·         Read more about St. Januarius at EWTN.

 

NIC’s Fitness Friday[3] Certified Health & Well-being Coach

Top 10 Things You Can Do TODAY to Improve Your Health

I love a good “Top Ten” list. It’s probably because I’m an impatient reader (ok, probably an impatient human in general but I’m working on it) and have been known to skip to the last chapter of a novel to see what happens. Who has time for plot development? We’re all rushed and over-busy. We leave little to no time for ourselves to do the things we should be doing: exercising, planning and eating healthy meals, taking time to do things we enjoy – it all gets pushed to the backburner during our crazy busy days. But I embolden you to take a few minutes to read this article… I’ll keep it short and sweet. This is my “Top Ten” list of the things that I feel make the biggest difference in the lives of my patients. True wellness happens when we pay attention to what matters most. To me, these are the things that truly matter.

1.      Be a nighttime creature of habit. Getting a good night’s sleep is paramount to improved health and wellbeing. We all know that we don’t feel very good when we don’t sleep well, but more importantly, chronic sleep deprivation can contribute serious health problems such as high blood pressure, increased stress hormones, and irregular heartbeat. To get a better night’s sleep, create nighttime habits that prepare your body and mind for sleep such as drinking herbal tea, taking a warm bath, meditation, and unplugging from all electronics an hour before bed.

2.      Drink more water. Think about how your house plants look after you forget to water them and imagine your body organs the same way when you’re dehydrated. The health benefits of water are numerous and include improved kidney function, weight management, and improved bowel function. So how much should you drink? Here’s an easy calculation: body weight x 2/3 = oz of water to consume daily. Increase and adjust for exercise.

3.      Practice daily meditation. In a recent article, published in the medical journal JAMA , researchers from John Hopkins University showed that mindfulness meditation can help ease anxiety, depression and pain. The practice of mindfulness meditation is simply sitting quietly and comfortably, focusing on your breathing, and bringing your mind’s attention to the present. Even 5 minutes of meditation per day (optimal is 30 minutes twice per day) can help balance both mind and body.

4.      Move your body every day. Yes, EVERY DAY. If I had to choose the single most important thing on this list to improve all aspects of health, exercise would win hands down. The goal should be to exercise 45-60 minutes 4-5 days per week, but it all counts! Park in the furthest parking spot (better yet, just walk!), take the stairs, do some squats while brushing your teeth – it all counts. Our bodies are meant to move and the more sedentary we are, the faster our bodies will break down. Make a commitment to break a sweat once a day.

5.      Eat more… (plants that is). With all the fad diets out there, it’s no wonder people are confused. This year has everyone back in hunter gatherer mode eating wild wildebeest cooked on a spit. I say, keep it simple – whole foods, no processed, mostly plants. A plant based diet is where it’s at. I love the quote from Michael Pollan, author of The Omnivore’s Dilemma, “Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants”. If you fill your plate with mostly plants and eat sensible portion sizes of food that your great great grandmother would recognize as such, you’re probably doing ok.

6.      Take a good multivitamin and an extra D. You never know which vitamin or mineral you might be missing and depletion of only one essential nutrient can set off imbalances in a wide range of metabolic pathways. Poor diet, poor soil quality, and lack of variation in food intake are some of the reasons we find deficiencies. Eating a wide array of local, in season, organic fruits and veggies, taking a good multivitamin and a little extra vitamin D are all good things to do to ensure your body is functioning at its best.

7.      Connect with nature. “Go get your mind right” is something my husband tells me when he sees me stressing out or worrying, and this is my cue to go outdoors and clear my head. Nature puts things into perspective, and I can’t help but feel less stressed when I stand next to the ocean or go for a hike. Seeing the vastness and beauty of nature has a way of making problems seem less huge and horrifying. Managing and decreasing stress are vital to good health, so get YOUR mind right and get outdoors.

8.      Connect to the people you love. Did you know that loneliness is a risk factor for early death? I almost fell out of my seat when I recently read this in the medical journal, Science. To quote the authors, “Social relationships, or the relative lack thereof, constitute a major risk factor for health – rivaling the effect of well-established health risk factors such as cigarette smoking, blood pressure, blood lipids, obesity and physical activity.” I find it so fascinating and incredibly sad that being lonely can affect our physiology so much that it can increase our risk of early death. So connect with those you love, mend broken relationships, seek social connection, join a club or church group. Better yet, notice those around you who might be facing isolation and loneliness and reach out to them. Invite a neighbor to dinner. Not only will you improve your own health, but you just might increase the lifespan of someone around you. How amazing is that?

9.      Boost your health with a daily dose of gratitude. Research studies in mental health show that grateful people tend to be healthier than their not so grateful counterparts. They tend to engage in healthier lifestyle traits such as regular exercise and eating a healthy diet. Those who practice daily gratitude also tend to have better immune function, antioxidant function, and handle stress better which has all sorts of awesome health benefits such as decreasing the risk of heart disease and cancer. So here’s your prescription: Start your day either thinking about or writing down five things that you are grateful for. Dose it daily and you’ll be healthier and happier this year and years to come.

10.  Get a checkup. According to a recent study, nearly 50% of Americans have either high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes or a combination of the three. All three are major risk factors for heart disease which is the leading cause of death in this country. What’s more, close to 10% of patients with high blood pressure and high cholesterol don’t know they have it; 3% for diabetes. Take care of your ticker – go get a physical and some blood work. Knowledge is power!

Be well.

 Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Conversion of Sinners

·         Religion in the Home for Preschool: September

·         Litany of the Most Precious Blood of Jesus

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary

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