We ask that on Tuesday, October 17, everyone hold a day of fasting, abstinence, and prayer. Let us organize prayer times with Eucharistic adoration and with the recitation of the Rosary to Our Blessed Virgin Mary. Although most probably in many parts of our dioceses circumstances will not permit large gatherings, it is possible to organize simple and sober common moments of prayer in parishes, religious communities, and families.
Introduction to Maccabees[1]
The name
Maccabee, probably meaning “hammer,” is actually applied in the Books of
Maccabees to only one man, Judas, third son of the priest Mattathias and first
leader of the revolt against the Seleucid kings who persecuted the Jews.
Traditionally the name has come to be extended to the brothers of Judas, his
supporters, and even to other Jewish heroes of the period, such as the seven
brothers. The two Books of Maccabees contain independent accounts of events
that accompanied the attempted suppression of Judaism in Palestine in the
second century B.C. The vigorous reaction to this attempt established for a
time the religious and political independence of the Jews. First Maccabees was
written about 100 B.C., in Hebrew, but the original has not come down to us.
Instead, we have an early, pre-Christian, Greek translation full of Hebrew
idioms. The author, probably a Palestinian Jew, is unknown. He was familiar
with the traditions and sacred books of his people and had access to much
reliable information on their recent history (from 175 to 134 B.C.). He may
well have played some part in it himself in his youth. His purpose in writing is
to record the deliverance of Israel that God worked through the family of
Mattathias—especially through his three sons, Judas, Jonathan, and Simon, and
his grandson, John Hyrcanus. The writer compares their virtues and their
exploits with those of Israel’s ancient heroes, the Judges, Samuel, and David.
The doctrine expressed in
the book is the customary belief of Israel. The people of Israel have been
specially chosen by the one true God as covenant-partner, and they alone are
privileged to know and worship God, their eternal benefactor and unfailing source
of help. The people, in turn, must
worship the Lord alone and observe exactly the precepts of the law given to
them. The rededication of the Jerusalem Temple in the book is the origin of the
Jewish feast of Hanukkah. There is no doctrine of individual immortality except
in the survival of one’s name and fame, nor does the book express any messianic
expectation, though messianic images are applied historically to “the days of
Simon”. The author insists on fidelity to the law as the expression of Israel’s
love for God. The contest which he describes is a struggle, not simply between
Jew and Gentile, but between those who would uphold the law and those, Jews or
Gentiles, who would destroy it. His severest condemnation goes, not to the
Seleucid politicians, but to the lawless apostates among his own people,
adversaries of Judas and his brothers, who are models of faith and loyalty.
OCTOBER 17 Tuesday
FORGIVE AN EX DAY
1 Maccabees, Chapter 2, Verse 62
Do not FEAR the words of sinners, for their glory ends in corruption and worms.
Maccabean wars were fought for religious freedom. Reflect today on our own Declaration of Independence for freedom from the English Crown.
We hold these truths to be self-evident:
That all men are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness; that, to secure these rights, governments are instituted among men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed; that whenever any form of government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the right of the people to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new government, laying its foundation on such principles, and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their safety and happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shown that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same object, evinces a design to reduce them under absolute despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such government, and to provide new guards for their future security.
Prayer[2]
Almighty God, Father of all nations, for freedom you have set us free in Christ Jesus (Gal 5:1). We praise and bless you for the gift of religious liberty, the foundation of human rights, justice, and the common good. Grant to our leaders the wisdom to protect and promote our liberties; by your grace may we have the courage to defend them, for ourselves and for all those who live in this blessed land. We ask this through the intercession of Mary Immaculate, our patroness, and in the name of your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, with whom you live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
St.
Ignatius of Antioch[3]
St.
Ignatius is one of the great bishops of the early Church. He was the successor
of St. Peter as Bishop of Antioch. He was condemned to death by wild beasts
during the Emperor Trajan's persecution. On his way to Rome, he wrote seven
magnificent letters, which we still have today, concerning the Person of
Christ, his love for Christ, his desire for martyrdom and on the constitution
of the Church and Christian life. His sentiments before his approaching
martyrdom are summed in his word in the Communion antiphon, "I am the
wheat of Christ, ground by the teeth of beasts to become pure bread."
Exhortations to Faith and Love
None of these things is
hid from you, if ye perfectly possess that faith and love towards Christ Jesus
which are the beginning and the end of life. For the beginning is faith, and
the end is love. Now these two. being inseparably connected together, are of
God, while all other things which are requisite for a holy life follow after
them. No man [truly] making a profession of faith sinneth; nor does he that
possesses love hate anyone. The tree is made manifest by its fruit; so those
that profess themselves to be Christians shall be recognized by their conduct.
For there is not now a demand for mere profession, but that a man be found
continuing in the power of faith to the end. Wherefore none of the devices of
the devil shall be hidden from you, if, like Paul, ye perfectly possess that
faith and love towards Christ which are the beginning and the end of life. The
beginning of life is faith, and the end is love. And these two being
inseparably connected together, do perfect the man of God; while all other
things which are requisite to a holy life follow after them. No man making a
profession of faith ought to sin, nor one possessed of love to hate his
brother. For He that said, "Thou shalt love the Lord thy God," said
also, "and thy neighbor as thyself." Those that profess themselves to
be Christ's are known not only by what they say, but by what they practice.
"For the tree is known by its fruit."
PEACE
I leave with you; my peace I give to
you. Not as the world gives do I give it to you. Do not let your hearts be
troubled or afraid.
It
is important to note that Christ gave
His peace in this verse to His
apostles just before the betrayal of Judas. Fear has no place in the hearts of
believers. Likewise, all our fear and distress as people awaiting His return must give way to the peace that is Christ’s gift. We now must face the conflict with the prince
of this world by keeping that peace in a troubled world. Christ by His death
demonstrated God’s commandment of total love.
EXHORTATION TO MEET TOGETHER
FREQUENTLY FOR THE WORSHIP OF GOD[4]
Take heed, then, often to come
together to give thanks to God, and show forth His praise. For when ye assemble
frequently in the same place, the powers of Satan are destroyed, and the
destruction at which he aims is prevented by the unity of your faith. Nothing
is more precious than peace, by which all war, both in heaven and earth, is
brought to an end.
Take heed, then, often to come
together to give thanks to God, and show forth His praise. For when ye come
frequently together in the same place, the powers of Satan are destroyed, and
his "fiery darts" urging to sin fall back ineffectual. For your
concord and harmonious faith prove his destruction, and the torment of his
assistants. Nothing is better than that peace, which is according to Christ, by
which all war, both of aërial and terrestrial spirits, is brought to an end.
"For we wrestle not against blood and flesh, but against principalities
and powers, and against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against
spiritual wickedness in heavenly places." St.
Ignatius of Antioch
Forgive an EX Day[5]
Forgiving does not erase the bitter
past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we
cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past
into a hope for our future. Lewis B. Smedes
Forgiveness is a conscious
act and for those who have been hurt by others, it can be hard when you know
the scars left behind. Relationships can be emotionally intense, filled with
history and memories, and can impact your life without you even realizing it.
When relationships fall apart, they can hurt, and the pain can last forever.
International Forgive an Ex Day is all about taking the time to reflect on your
own pain and move forward by forgiving the actions of others. International
Forgive an Ex Day provides insight into pain and relationships. This holiday is
all about finding the insight you need to move past the mental trauma of a
broken relationship, no matter how long it lasted. Typically, during this
holiday, participants take an active choice to seek advice about forgiveness,
whether that be going to a friend or seeing a counselor. Knowing that the path
to healing can be long and hard, this holiday can be used as a start towards
forgiveness or as a final conclusion towards forgiving your ex-lover. From
there, after making the effort to forgive your ex, it is up to the individual
to choose how to move forward from there. This holiday challenges you over how
you perceive people in life and encourages people all over the world to start
the path to forgiveness. It’s
all about self-reflection and healing, so whether you can find the courage and
peace of mind to forgive your ex-lover can take time. This is also a time to
help others forgive their ex’s
by giving them advice about forgiveness.
How to celebrate International Forgive an Ex Day
If you want to celebrate
this holiday, then take the chance to talk to your ex to see how they are
doing. If you’re
not ready to speak with them, take the time to examine yourself and your
position in life. In the meanwhile, speak with a counselor about this path to
forgiveness and find advice from all sources, from friends and family to
professional help. Share this holiday with your friends and family on your
favorite social media websites using the hashtag #internationalforgiveanexday and
see if this holiday can help others share their experiences about their ex’s and help them forgive the past.
Does Divorced mean EX Catholic?[6]
The
institution of marriage is in trouble today. The divorce rate is anywhere from
50 percent for first marriages to 80 percent for subsequent marriages. Perhaps,
as a result, more and more couples are choosing to live together without
bothering to get married.
The
Church—the institution as well as the individuals—needs to minister to the
millions of divorced Catholics by both changing ingrained attitudes and
reaching out in love. Yes, the Church is and should be pro-marriage, but, like
its Lord, it must also love and support those whose marriages have failed. It’s
a fine line to walk, but it is necessary.
As
the survivor of divorce after 30 years of marriage, I know there needs to be a
healthier dialogue within the Catholic Church between those who have never
divorced (including our clergy) and those who have. Here are seven things you
may not know about divorce:
1. Non-divorced Catholics often come
across as judgmental of the divorced. Perhaps they don’t mean to. But there is
a definite, although largely unconscious, attitude in the Church that the
divorced are less spiritual, less committed to marriage and/or less forgiving
than the long-term married. Non-divorced Catholics need to be careful of
assumptions, to discard any trace of judgment toward the divorced. Since I have
“been there, done that” when it comes to being judgmental, I can address this
issue personally. It is too easy for those who have never experienced the
desperation and sorrow of a failed marriage to believe that “they could have
done something to save it.” Let me assure you, the divorced Catholics I know
(including myself) are spiritual, forgiving people who are committed to family
and to the institution of marriage. And they did all they could to save their
marriages. It is time for all of us in the Church to stop judging the divorced.
2. Not every marriage was ‘joined by
God’ even if it took place in a church. This may seem like a rationalization,
but Jesus’ statement in Matthew 19:6 (“Therefore, what God has joined together,
no human being must separate”) does not apply to all marriages. Many of us,
looking back, realize that God was simply not a part of our decision to marry.
In my case, I never asked God, never gave God the chance to stop my headlong
(and headstrong) determination to get married. And God was trying to get my
attention. There were real problems. My intended was heading to a war zone for
a year, and friends and family counseled me to wait. But I would not listen. We
have all attended enough weddings to recall what the priest or deacon always
asks a couple at the beginning of the marriage ceremony: “Do you come here
freely and without reservation?” For most of us divorced Catholics, the answer
to that question, if we had been truthful, was “no.” How can anyone claim that
a particular marriage was “joined by God” if that was not the intention of the
parties getting married?
3.
The
divorced do not have to justify themselves. Even if a divorcing/divorced person
is very close to you, you do not know what really happened. Therefore, you
should refrain from making comments or asking prying questions. Perhaps we
divorced Catholics are overly sensitive, but certain statements and inquiries
are like rubbing salt into a very sore wound. I have been asked, “Did you try
counseling or Retrouvaille?” as though I would smack my head and say, “Gee, why
didn’t I think of that?” Yes, I tried everything I could think of. “Why can’t
you just forgive him?” is another gem, to which I answer that forgiveness is
not the same as a pardon. People have commented, “But you seemed like such a
happy couple.” That’s what we wanted you to think; that’s what we wanted to
believe. The bottom line is this: Such questions and comments just hurt, and
they are unfair. If a divorcing/divorced person does not want to confide in
you, do not prod him/her to tell you what happened. Just love that person. And
give him/her the benefit of the doubt that he/she tried everything to make the
marriage work. There are a variety of reasons why marriages fail. The “big
three” most of us think of are adultery, addiction and abuse, but the real
reason behind most failed marriages is simple indifference, often on the part
of one spouse. There is no way a husband or wife can save a marriage
single-handedly. When a marriage fails, no amount of effort, enabling or
denial will save it. It is wrong to ask for details before you support your
divorced friend, family member or parishioner. People should not have to
justify their actions before they are loved for who they are.
4. Divorce has changed my life for the
better. Many other divorced Catholics can say the same. Divorce has released me
spiritually, mentally and emotionally to become the person God created me to
be. I have been able to move on to a life that is fuller, happier and more
creative. The most important change is this: My relationship with God is better
today than it ever has been. When I was freed from an impossible, dysfunctional
marriage, my relationship with God blossomed. I had some initial worries about
my spiritual status when I began the process, but God quickly reassured and
comforted me as I went through and beyond my divorce. The psychological
counseling and spiritual direction I received during my divorce made me a
healthier person than I ever was before. I have worked through the deep
problems caused by my dysfunctional childhood. I have faced and forgiven
everyone who helped shape my early years in negative ways. And I understand and
embrace my individuality. Yes, divorce was a painful passage to go through, but
I am a better person today because of it.
5. I don’t need to marry again to be
happy. I get a lot of comments, concern and advice about finding someone when
people learn I have been divorced for eight years. I really am happy as a
single person, and not at all lonely or bitter about the past because I choose
to remain single. I understood right from the beginning of my new life as a
single person that, in order to be happy in a new relationship, I would have to
be happy just being me and being single. My attitude now is, “If it happens, it
happens.” In the meantime, please accept that I am fine as a single person. And
for goodness’ sake: Don’t try to fix me up with anyone!
6. I hope my divorce makes you
question assumptions about your marriage. Does that shock you? It shouldn’t. It
means that I love you and I love the institution of marriage. But healthy
marriages don’t just happen. I was sure my marriage would never end. At the
same time, I was unaware of what makes a healthy marriage and very much in
denial about our problems. My marital problems went a lot deeper than most, but
every marriage needs constant care. And every marriage can use a tune-up now
and then: a few counseling sessions, a Marriage Encounter weekend or a retreat
together. Marriage takes a lot of work. I am delighted when friends and
co-workers tell me that watching what I went through eight years ago or hearing
me talk now about my divorce compelled them to take a second look at their own
marriages, strengthen what was weak and recommit themselves to the
relationship. The divorced have a great deal to teach the married about what a
good, healthy and Christian marriage really is.
7.
Every
marriage ends. The marriage covenant ends when this life ends. Jesus tells us
in Luke 20:34-35 that there is no marriage in heaven. Marriage is an earthly
institution with a heavenly purpose. Marriage is a training ground wherein we
cosmic youngsters learn about the love that has existed from all eternity
within the Holy Trinity. Its purpose is to train us to give up our selfish
tendencies, to care for another as we would care for ourselves, to take our
place in the Kingdom of God. Marriage is a foreshadowing of our eternal
relationship with God and with one another. Marriage is a wonderful thing, but
it is not a forever thing. Knowing and remembering that should deepen not only
the relationship with your earthly spouse, but also your love for your heavenly
spouse, Jesus. As a divorced Catholic, I have taken great comfort from the
story of Jesus’ encounter with the woman of Samaria at Jacob’s well (John
4:4-42). This poor woman had been married five times and was now living with
yet another man. That’s a lot of failed relationships—even by today’s
standards! Jesus’ tenderness toward her and his sympathy for her situation are
apparent. Did he deliberately go to that spot at that unlikely time of day
because he knew she would be drawing water then? Did he send the disciples away
to get lunch in the town, so he could talk to her alone? I don’t doubt it. Jesus
never spoke to this woman or any other hurting person in ways that increased
their pain. He offered this divorcée “living water,” himself, which was what
she had been searching for in all her relationships. It is time for the rest of
the Catholic Church to do the same.
Divorce and the Catholic Church
·
The
first thing Catholics should know is that divorce is not a sin that should
keep a divorced Catholic from receiving the sacraments. A divorced or separated
person is not excommunicated and is still a Catholic in good standing. The only
reason for excommunication after divorce is remarriage without going through
the annulment process.
·
Before
a divorced person can remarry in the Catholic Church, he or she must obtain an
annulment by a Catholic diocesan tribunal. Obtaining such a decree does not
mean that the marriage never took place; it is a determination that a
sacramental marriage did not take place.
·
This
does not mean that the children of that marriage are illegitimate or that the
couple was “living in sin.” It means that, in that particular case, the
marrying couple had little or no idea what Christian marriage was all about or
that there were deep problems from the beginning of the marriage, either in the
couple’s relationship or in their families of origin.
·
Therefore,
the Church may determine that it was impossible then for the couple to enter
into a truly Christian marriage. Divorced Catholics who are seeking an
annulment should talk to their pastors, who will direct them to the proper
contacts at their diocese.
The
annulment process can give divorced Catholics three gifts:
CLARITY, by helping them see the
why’s and how’s of their failed marriage in a new light.
HEALING, by allowing them to work
through their anger and guilt and come through to a better place spiritually
and emotionally.
TIME, by forcing the divorced
person to wait before making any more relationship decisions.
Recently
divorced people are especially vulnerable to needing companionship, support and
sympathy. The first person of the opposite sex who provides that is going to be
very attractive, but the newly divorced person does not need that kind of
complication in the healing process. The newly divorced person needs breathing
room after a marriage ends.
The
dismal divorce statistics after second and third marriages are proof that too
many divorced people simply don’t wait long enough to recover completely.
Taking part in the Catholic Church’s annulment process is one way to ensure
that a good healing process has begun. If a divorced Catholic does meet someone
he or she might want to marry, that person will not only have better tools for
discerning whether this is a good relationship but will also have the Church’s
blessing on a second marriage.
Catechism of the Catholic
Church
PART TWO: THE CELEBRATION OF THE CHRISTIAN
MYSTERY
SECTION TWO-THE SEVEN
SACRAMENTS OF THE CHURCH
CHAPTER TWO-THE SACRAMENTS OF HEALING
Article 4-THE SACRAMENT OF PENANCE AND RECONCILIATION
III. The Conversion of the Baptized
1427 Jesus calls to conversion.
This call is an essential part of the proclamation of the kingdom: "The
time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand; repent, and believe in
the gospel." In the Church's preaching this call is addressed first
to those who do not yet know Christ and his Gospel. Also, Baptism is the
principal place for the first and fundamental conversion. It is by faith in the
Gospel and by Baptism that one renounces evil and gains salvation, that is, the
forgiveness of all sins and the gift of new life.
1428 Christ's call to conversion
continues to resound in the lives of Christians. This second conversion is an
uninterrupted task for the whole Church who, "clasping sinners to her
bosom, (is) at once holy and always in need of purification, (and) follows
constantly the path of penance and renewal." This endeavor of
conversion is not just a human work. It is the movement of a "contrite
heart," drawn and moved by grace to respond to the merciful love of God
who loved us first.
1429 St. Peter's conversion after
he had denied his master three times bears witness to this. Jesus' look of
infinite mercy drew tears of repentance from Peter and, after the Lord's
resurrection, a threefold affirmation of love for him. The second
conversion also has a communitarian dimension, as is clear in the Lord's call
to a whole Church: "Repent!"
St. Ambrose says of the two
conversions that, in the Church, "there are water and tears: the water of
Baptism and the tears of repentance."
Daily
Devotions
·
Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them
in fasting: Today's Fast: Individuals
with Mental Illness
·
Make
reparations to the Holy Face-Tuesday
Devotion
·
Pray Day 5 of
the Novena for our Pope and Bishops
·
Tuesday:
Litany of St. Michael the Archangel
·
Religion
in the Home for Preschool: October
·
Litany of the Most Precious
Blood of Jesus
·
Offering to
the sacred heart of Jesus
·
Rosary
[3]http://www.catholicculture.org/culture/liturgicalyear/calendar/day.cfm?date=2016-10-17
[4]https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/view.cfm?id=3836
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