The Iceman Story

The Iceman Story
Support this work by purchasing the book or the audiobook.

Wednesday, July 8, 2026

Smoke in This Life Not the Next — Wed, Jul 8

Virtue: Mercy & Terror 

Cigar: Cheap Night — rough, humbling, penitential 

Bourbon: None — poverty of palate, seriousness of soul

Sister Gesta’s suffering is one of those rare moments when heaven leaves a mark on earth — literally. The burn imprint of her hand on the door is not a curiosity but a mercy. It is the kind of mercy that refuses to let us drift toward death unprepared. In her agony, she spoke not of injustice but of the compassion of God, who allowed her pain to become a warning for the living.

Fr. Schouppe understood this severity: God’s mercy is sometimes a fire. The souls in purgatory are already saved, already loved, already claimed — but they are not yet ready to bear the weight of glory. Sister Gesta’s torment reveals the truth we prefer to ignore: purification is real, exact, and unavoidable. The burn mark is heaven’s insistence that we take our own preparation seriously.

Cheap Night fits the meditation. Its harshness strips away illusion. Its poverty reminds me that comfort is not the point. Tonight’s smoke is not about pleasure but clarity — the clarity that comes when God shows us what awaits the soul that dies with unfinished business.

Sister Gesta’s suffering becomes a mercy because it awakens vigilance. It urges prayer for the dead. It demands honesty about the state of my own soul. It teaches that God warns because He loves — and that the burn mark on the door is a gift meant to save me before it is too late.



JULY 8 Wednesday Sixth Week of Pentecost

 

Hosea, Chapter 10, Verse 3

For now they will say, “We have no king! Since we do not FEAR the LORD, the king—what could he do for us?”

 

Christ is the strength of the weak and the humble confidence of those who trust in him. Christ says to us,

 

My sheep hear my voice, says the Lord; I know them, and they follow me. (Jn. 10:27)

 

Short Explanation of the Lord’s Prayer[1] 

Why does God wish us to pray to Him?

To remind us:

1. that all good things come from Him, and that without Him we have nothing.

2. That we may confide in Him and try to make ourselves worthy of His divine grace, by thoughts pleasing to Him, and valuing more, and using better, the graces we receive.


Why is our prayers often not heard?

It is because we often ask for something that would be more hurtful than profitable to us. 

When ought we to pray?

We should pray at all times, but especially at,

1, morning, noon, and night.

2, in time of great temptation.

3, when receiving the sacraments.

4, when about to undertake anything important.

5, at the hour of death.

Which is the best of all prayers?

The Lord’s Prayer: but though we say it a hundred times, it will fail to produce its beneficial effects if we repeat it thoughtlessly, without thinking of its meaning or purpose. 

Why does this prayer commence with “Our Father?”

To encourage us thereby to a child-like confidence in God. As our Father, Who loves all men, and is ever ready to help them.

Why do we say, “Who art in heaven,” since God is everywhere?

We say this to admonish us to lift up our hearts to heaven, our true home, where God has set up the throne of His kingdom.

What do we ask of God in this prayer?

In the first petition, “hallowed be Thy name,” we pray that God may be known and loved by all men, and that His name may be glorified by a Christian life.

In the second petition, “Thy kingdom come,” we pray God to enter and rule in our hearts by His grace, to spread His Church throughout the whole world, and after our death to award us eternal happiness.

In the third petition, “Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven,” we offer ourselves entirely to God, and declare ourselves ready to be subject to the dispositions of His holy will, as are the angels in heaven, and pray to Him for grace to do this.

In the fourth petition, “give us this day our daily bread,” we ask for all things which we need for the body, as food and clothing, and for the soul, as grace and the divine word.

In the fifth petition, “forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those that trespass against us,” we pray to God for forgiveness, but only as far as we forgive those that injure us. We must therefore remember that we shall not obtain forgiveness from God so long as we have in our heart’s hatred against anyone.

In the sixth petition, “and lead us not into temptation,” we acknowledge our frailty, and ask God to remove temptations from us, or, if He permit us to fall into those which the world, the flesh, and the devil prepare for us, to give us grace not to consent to them, but, by combating and overcoming them, to gain the merit and the crown of justice.

In the seventh petition, “but deliver us from evil,” we pray to God to preserve us from sin, and the occasions of sin; an evil death and hell also from all temporal evils, so far as may be for the salvation of our souls.

America is now at the threshold of history

 

Like Israel in Hosea’s time America has drifted into serious sin. According to John Maxwell Israel while in captivity had no real leadership (much like America) and had broken the “Law of Solid Ground.” The 6th irrefutable law of leadership—The Law of Solid Ground states that “trust is the foundation of leadership.” Israel’s leadership made false promises that had eroded the people’s confidence in their leaders and people follow only in proportion to their trust in the leader.

 

Americans are a just people and fair people and our hearts go out to the world.

 

Yet what are we to do?

 

Many years ago, while reviewing the CIA handbook I noticed that economically all of the nations that have been giving us the most trouble militarily were also on the list of those countries with the worst per capita income: people who make less than 200 dollars a year. I thought rather than do battle with these people would it not be better to bring the economic power of America to these populaces and help them to improve their lives and rid themselves of their gangs and dictators.

 

Thus, bringing up their per capita income; what would the effect be on those who we may have to embattle? I questioned would improving their lives in their own country decrease our need to do battle?

 

I decided to do an experiment. With a little research I invested in one of the stocks from one of the poorest countries: Zimbabwe. After three months I sold my stock after doubling my money. My point is perhaps we as American’s can do more by helping the downtrodden in building up their own countries.


 

Copilot’s Take

Freedom from despair begins with the recognition that evil is never the final force shaping human history. Hosea’s cry over Israel’s collapse is not merely an ancient lament but a recurring spiritual pattern. Whenever a people lose the fear of the Lord, they lose the interior strength that keeps them upright. The Catechism teaches that despair is a sin against hope because it denies God’s mercy and His power to act (CCC 2091). In moments when nations drift and trust erodes, this prophetic warning feels strikingly relevant.

Christ confronts despair not by removing hardship but by restoring presence. “My sheep hear my voice,” He says, and that voice becomes the antidote to the paralysis evil seeks to impose. Evil thrives when people believe they are abandoned or powerless. The Lord’s Prayer stands as a direct challenge to that lie. Every petition pushes back against hopelessness. To pray “Thy kingdom come” is to reject the idea that darkness is inevitable. To pray “Thy will be done” is to declare that divine purpose still governs the unfolding of history. The Catechism reminds believers that prayer is a vital expression of hope, anchoring the heart in God’s fidelity (CCC 1817).

Catholic Social Teaching insists that confronting evil requires more than interior devotion; it demands a commitment to justice rooted in human dignity. Evil today is not only personal but structural, appearing in systems that crush the poor, corrupt leadership, and erode trust. When nations remain economically broken, violence and instability flourish. When the poor are lifted up, the soil in which conflict grows begins to dry. The Church teaches that solidarity with the poor is not optional but a moral duty flowing from the dignity of every human person (CCC 2448). Economic justice becomes a form of spiritual resistance, a way of pushing back against despair by building conditions where hope can take root.

A nation’s crisis, like Israel’s in Hosea, is often a crisis of trust. Leadership without integrity collapses, and people without confidence lose the courage to act for the common good. The Law of Solid Ground, which teaches that trust is the foundation of leadership, echoes the biblical truth that societies drift when righteousness is forgotten. Yet the Christian response is not cynicism. It is theological hope—hope that God still works through imperfect leaders and imperfect nations, and that moral renewal begins with spiritual renewal. The Catechism describes hope as the virtue that keeps the believer from discouragement and sustains engagement in the world (CCC 1818).

Acts of solidarity, even small ones, become parables of hope. When resources flow toward the poorest places, when opportunities are created where none existed, despair is quietly undermined. Economic uplift is not merely financial strategy; it is a spiritual gesture that says to the world: your future can be better than your past. This is the kind of hope the Church calls for—hope that becomes concrete, hope that becomes incarnate, hope that becomes a witness against the evil of indifference. The Catechism teaches that charity, expressed in real action, is the form of all virtues and the engine of authentic social transformation (CCC 1822).

Freedom from despair is ultimately freedom to act. Evil seeks to immobilize; God seeks to mobilize. Prayer is not an escape from responsibility but the ignition of responsibility. When believers pray the Lord’s Prayer with attention, they ask God to reorder their desires, strengthen their courage, and send them into the world as instruments of His kingdom. Despair whispers that nothing can be done. Hope answers that God is already doing something—and invites His people to join Him. In this way, the Christian confronts evil not with fear, but with the steady confidence that grace is stronger than darkness (CCC 1996).

Let Freedom Ring-Day 2 “Freedom from Despair.”

(See Character is Destiny for opposing virtue: HOPE)

My Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, at a word from you the devil and his minions flee in terror. You are the source of all truth. You are the source of all strength. By the power of your Cross and Resurrection, we beseech you, O Lord. To extend your saving arm and to send your holy angels. To defend us as we do battle with Satan and his demonic forces. Exorcise, we pray, that which oppresses your Bride, The Church, So that within ourselves, our families, our parishes, our dioceses, and our nation. We may turn fully back to you in all fidelity and trust. Lord, we know if you will it, it will be done. Give us the perseverance for this mission, we pray.

Amen

Our Lady of the Immaculate Conception ... pray for us

St. Joseph ... pray for us

St. Michael the Archangel ... pray for us

(the patron of your parish) ... pray for us

(your confirmation saint) ... pray for us

"Freedom from Despair"


by Fr. Rick Heilman

There is a stirring scene in the 6th chapter of John's Gospel, a chapter referred to as the "Bread of Life Discourse." Jesus had just told the crowd, " Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life."  The response by nearly all was, "This is a hard teaching. Who can accept it?" Jesus returns with, "The Spirit gives life; the flesh counts for nothing." And then, in the 66th verse of chapter 6 of John's Gospel, or rather John 6:66, almost everyone leaves: "From this time many of his disciples turned back and no longer followed him."

The crowd who abandoned Jesus had abandoned hope. They despaired. So, what did they do? They "turned back" to the emptiness of "merely existing" in the flesh. This emptiness or "desolation" is the place the devil wants us to be. It is Satan's kingdom.

I believe it is no accident that the chapter and verse of this act of despair in John's Gospel is 666. We are given free will. We can choose God or not. In the Book of Revelation, 666 is the number of the beast, or the number of man. Once separated from God, Satan wants us to believe we are merely one animal (beast) among many; just part of the herd. So, like animals, we are left to scramble to fill this void with worldly wants and lusts; works of the flesh.

Make no mistake about it, the influencers of our culture (media, Hollywood, TV, universities, public schools, etc.) are, by and large, godless propagandists who are determined to instill in us the notion that we are "merely animals." Therefore, women are objectified, men are just vulgar beasts, pre-born babies are a clump of cells, and the nuclear family - the bedrock of civilization - is outdated. As the Satanic bible proclaims: "Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law." Just be animals.

After the crowd abandoned Jesus in despair, He then said to the Twelve, "Do you also want to leave?" Simon Peter answered him, "Master, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. We have come to believe and are convinced that you are the Holy One of God."

The Apostles were not buying the lie of the devil. No, we are not just animals, we are precious children of God, created in His image. Therefore, life in the Spirit is filled with the hope of a joyful and amazing journey of striving to please God in every way, especially by striving to become the very best version of ourselves we can possibly be. And, just as Jesus demonstrated on the cross, we are called to a total selfless love of neighbor.

The crowd abandoned Him in despair, but the Apostles stayed with Him in hope. If we want the hope of all meaning and purpose in life as a child of God, we simply must get near to Him, because "the Spirit gives life." We must combat the temptation of allowing our faith to devolve into merely "punching the clock" by fulfilling basic obligations. Many avoid an intimate relationship with the Lord because, like the crowd, they believe, "This is a hard teaching." In other words, if they "let God in," He will ask "too much" from us. It's better to keep God at arm's length, a manageable distance.

It's time to "make it personal." It's time to "get near" to Him before the Blessed Sacrament. Spend time Adoring Our Lord. This can be done by scheduling an hour at a local Adoration Chapel, or you can simply come early or stay after Mass. Be careful, though, because you may just find yourself crying out, "My Lord and my God!" ... and then everything will change. Your life, filled with hope, will rise to new and exciting heights!

"Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not be faint." - Isaiah 40:31

Prayer of Reparation

My Lord and my God, We have allowed the temptation of the devil to move our hearts to despair in Your Presence and Power.
We have kept ourselves distanced from You, so that we may be safe from Your plan for our lives. We have been too fearful to trust in a personal relationship that may ask too much from us. In our doubt and despair, we have allowed the ancient foe to advance. We turn to You Lord, in our emptiness, and beg Your forgiveness for our despairing lack of trust. We beg for the grace to draw near to You, even as we watch, as did the Apostles, so many who abandon You. We know, Lord, if You will it, it will be done. Trusting in You, we offer our prayer to You who live and reign forever and ever. Amen.

Prayer of Exorcism

Lord God of Heaven and Earth, in your power and goodness, you created all things. You set a path for us to walk on and a way to an eternal relationship. By the strength of your arm and Word of your mouth Cast from your Holy Church every fearful deceit of the Devil. Drive from us manifestations of the demonic that oppress us and beckon us from faithlessness and fear. Still the lying tongue of the devil and his forces so that we may act freely and faithfully to your will. Send your holy angels to cast out all influence that the demonic entities in charge of fear have planted in your church. Free us, our families, our parish, our diocese, and our country from all trickery and deceit perpetrated by the Devil and his hellish legions. Trusting in your goodness Lord, we know if you will it, it will be done in unity with Your Son and the Holy Spirit, One God for ever and ever. Amen.

Litany of the Immaculate Heart of Mary

Lord, have mercy,
Lord, have mercy.

Christ, have mercy,
Christ, have mercy.

Lord, have mercy,
Lord, have mercy.

Christ, hear us,
Christ, graciously hear us.

God the Father of Heaven,
Have mercy on us.

God the Son, redeemer of the world,


Have mercy on us.

God the Holy Spirit,
Have mercy on us.

Holy Trinity, one God,
Have mercy on us.

Response to the following: Pray for us.

Heart of Mary
Heart of Mary, after God's own Heart
Heart of Mary, in union with the Heart of Jesus
Heart of Mary, the vessel of the Holy Spirit
Heart of Mary, shrine of the Trinity
Heart of Mary, home of the Word
Heart of Mary, immaculate in your creation
Heart of Mary, flooded with grace
Heart of Mary, blessed of all hearts
Heart of Mary, Throne of glory
Heart of Mary, Abyss of humbleness,
Heart of Mary, Victim of love
Heart of Mary, nailed to the cross
Heart of Mary, comfort of the sad
Heart of Mary, refuge of the sinner
Heart of Mary, hope of the dying
Heart of Mary, seat of mercy

Lamb of God, who take away the sins of the world,
Spare us, O Lord.

Lamb of God, who take away the sins of the world,
Graciously hear us, O Lord.

Lamb of God, who take away the sins of the world,
Have mercy on us.

Christ, hear us.
Christ, graciously hear us.

Lord, have mercy.
Christ, have mercy.
Lord, have mercy.


Immaculate Mary, meek and humble of heart.
Conform our hearts to the heart of Jesus.

Let us pray:

O most merciful God, who for the salvation of sinners and the refuge of the wretched, has made the Immaculate Heart of Mary most like in tenderness and pity to the Heart of Jesus, grant that we, who now commemorate her most sweet and loving heart, may by her merits and intercession, ever live in the fellowship of the hearts of both Mother and Son, through the same Christ our Lord. Amen.


Source: Blessed Cardinal John Henry Newman. Published in From Parochial and Plain Sermons. c 1997, San Francisco: Ignatius Press

 Around the Corner

The first public reading of the Declaration of Independence didn't occur until July 8, 1776.  It was sent to the printers on July 4th. Pray we now live it.

10 coolest summer getaways in Arizona: Mountains, lakes and a chilly cave trek

Bucket List: Vineyard World Tour: White Raven Vineyard, Montana

Novena to Our Lady of Mount Carmel-Day 2

Foodie: National Eggplant Month

Khoresh-e Bademjoon

Spirit Hour: Rainha Santa Port

Wild About Wildlife Month

Cow Appreciation Day

Daily Devotions

Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Protection of Traditional Marriage

Litany of the Most Precious Blood of Jesus

Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

Drops of Christ’s Blood

Universal Man Plan

Rosary



[1] Goffine’s Devout Instructions, 1896



THE LADY SAYS NO (1951)

Joan Caulfield • David Niven • James Robertson Justice • Frances Bavier Directed by Frank Ross

The Lady Says No is a coastal comedy wrapped around a cultural argument — a story about a woman who writes a manifesto against men, only to discover that conviction without charity becomes brittle. Beneath its breezy tone lies a meditation on pride, vulnerability, and the slow, surprising ways truth softens the heart.

Joan Caulfield’s Dorinda Hatch is a writer who believes she has solved the problem of men. David Niven’s Bill Shelby is a photographer who refuses to be dismissed. Their collision becomes a lesson in humility, affection, and the danger of ideas that forget the human beings they claim to describe.

The film’s charm hides its deeper truth: love is not conquered by theory, and the human heart cannot be managed by slogans.

1. Production & Cultural Setting

Postwar Gender Debates in Early 1950s America

Released in 1951, the film arrives at a moment when America was renegotiating gender roles. Women who had worked during the war were being encouraged back into domestic life, while men were reclaiming cultural authority. The movie plays with this tension — sometimes lightly, sometimes sharply — revealing a nation unsure of how to balance independence with intimacy.

Joan Caulfield: Wit as Armor

Caulfield’s Dorinda is brilliant, poised, and defensive. Her confidence is real, but her rigidity is a shield. She embodies the era’s anxiety about female autonomy: admired, feared, and often misunderstood.

David Niven: Charm as Counterargument

Niven’s Bill Shelby represents the postwar male ideal — confident, amused, and convinced that affection is stronger than ideology. His persistence is not predatory but patient, a reminder that persuasion can be gentle.

2. Story Summary

The Arrival

Bill Shelby travels to California to photograph Dorinda Hatch, whose bestselling book The Lady Says No has become a cultural sensation. He expects a zealot; he finds a woman hiding behind her own rhetoric.

The Conflict

Dorinda’s philosophy insists that men are unnecessary, unreliable, and emotionally hazardous. Bill challenges her conclusions — not with argument, but with presence, humor, and a refusal to be dismissed.

The Unmasking

As Bill observes Dorinda’s life, he sees the cracks: her loneliness, her fear of vulnerability, her struggle to reconcile theory with experience. Her aunt, played by Frances Bavier, becomes the quiet voice of wisdom urging her toward honesty.

The Showdown

Dorinda’s worldview collapses when she realizes that her book has wounded people — especially women who adopted her ideas without understanding her own unresolved pain.

The Victory

Dorinda chooses truth over pride. She revises her book, reclaims her humanity, and discovers that affection is not a threat but a gift.

3. Moral & Emotional Resonances

A. Ideology Without Empathy Becomes Cruel

Dorinda’s book is sharp but shallow. It wounds because it forgets the complexity of real relationships.

B. Vulnerability Is a Form of Strength

Her transformation begins when she admits fear — not failure.

C. Pride Often Masks Loneliness

Dorinda’s independence is admirable, but her isolation reveals the cost of refusing connection.

D. Gentle Persistence Can Heal

Bill Shelby’s charm is not manipulation; it is patience. His steadiness allows Dorinda to reconsider her assumptions.

E. Love Defies Theory

The film insists that affection cannot be systematized. The heart refuses to be managed by rules.

4. Hospitality Pairing — A Night of Coastal Humility

Drink: Gin and tonic with lime — crisp, bracing, a reminder that clarity can be refreshing. Plate: Fresh‑caught fish with buttered potatoes — simple, honest, unpretentious. Atmosphere: Sea breeze, open windows, a typewriter on the table — the birth of a revised manuscript. Symbol: A torn page — the courage to rewrite what pride once declared final.

5. Reflection Prompts

  • Where have I built theories to protect myself from vulnerability.

  • What convictions in my life need to be softened by compassion.

  • Who has challenged me not with argument but with presence.

  • Where has pride kept me from seeing the full truth.

  • What relationship — past or present — invites me to rewrite an old script today.




Comments

Popular Posts

40 Days Freedom from the Devil-Day 40

40 Days Freedom from the Devil-Day 40
Resist and he will flee-Day 40

Michael's Corner

Saturday Litany Invoking Our Mother

Saturday Litany Invoking Our Mother
Pray for the aid of Mary

Spiritual Warfare

Bourbon & Cigars

Bourbon & Cigars
Smoke in this Life not the Next

Healing Bible Drinks

Healing Bible Drinks
Healing Bible Drinks-No ethanol here

Litany of the Precious Blood

Litany of the Precious Blood
Blood of Christ, without which there is no forgiveness, save us.

The Path of the Three Hearts

The Path of the Three Hearts
The Path of the Three Hearts

Porters of St. Joseph

Porters of St. Joseph
Men of Virtue

Devotion to the Drops of Blood

Devotion to the Drops of Blood
I will descend from Heaven to take your soul and that of your relatives, until the fourth generation.

Habitual Sin

Habitual Sin
STOP IT

Saint's Michael's Lent

Rosary Roadmap of Salvation

August

August
Month of Mary