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Wednesday, November 18, 2026


 

Smoke in This Life; Not the Next

Wednesday, Nov. 18 – Scandal Given

Virtue: Modesty

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A spark can start a fire, and a careless example can start a spiritual disaster. For centuries, the Church has warned against the sin of scandal, not merely because someone is shocked or offended, but because a person's actions may become an occasion for another's fall. Scandal occurs when we make sin easier, temptation more attractive, or virtue more difficult for others.

Following the Council of Trent, Church leaders paid close attention to sacred art. Beauty was encouraged, but images that stirred lust or distracted from God were condemned. The concern was not artistic excellence but spiritual responsibility. Art, like every human creation, should help lift the soul rather than pull it downward.

Today the challenge extends far beyond paintings on chapel walls. Every phone, computer, television, and social media account places countless images before our eyes. We may not be artists, but we choose what we view, share, recommend, and encourage. Those choices affect not only us but those around us.

The Swiss pikemen understood that one man breaking formation could endanger the entire line. The spiritual life works much the same way. What appears to be a private compromise often creates public consequences. A careless word, crude joke, or impure image may leave a wound in another soul long after we have forgotten it.

As today's smoke rises, examine not only your actions but your influence. Ask whether your example leads others closer to Christ or farther away from Him. Holiness is never merely personal. Every virtue strengthens the line; every vice weakens it.

*"Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to...

NOVEMBER 18 Wednesday Twenty Fifth Week Pentecost

 

Luke, Chapter 19, Verse 20-21

Then the other servant came and said, ‘Sir, here is your gold coin; I kept it stored away in a handkerchief, for I was AFRAID of you, because you are a demanding person; you take up what you did not lay down and you harvest what you did not plant.’

 

When I read this verse; I thought of Mathew Kelly’s writing from his book, “Rediscovering Catholicism.” Kelly speaks about the various attitudes and philosophies which shape and define the mindset of the modern secular world. He identifies three key lifestyles: individualism, hedonism, and minimalism.

 

First, what’s individualism?

 

Individualism is an attitude whereby I come to see myself as the center of the universe. The individualist will typically go through the course of his or her day asking himself or herself one question: “What’s in it for me?”

 

Secondly, what’s hedonism?

 

Essentially, it is an attitude whereby I come to see the pursuit of my own personal pleasure as my primary concern in life. The hedonist will typically ask himself or herself this question: “How can I maximize the amount of pleasure in my life while minimizing the amount of pain and inconvenience which I must endure?”

 

Thirdly, what is minimalism?

 

This is a attitude whereby I look to put in the minimum amount of effort that I possibly can into life, while reaping the maximum amount of reward. The minimalist will typically ask himself or herself questions such as these:

 

·         “What’s the least amount I can possibly do at the workplace and still keep my job?” Or perhaps:

·         “What’s the least amount I can possibly do at school and still get a good grade?”

 

There are many people in the world today who might “self-identify” as being “Christian”, if not “Catholic”, who are still giving their hearts very much to the so-called “spirit of the world”; whether we’re talking about the spirit of individualism, hedonism or minimalism. For instance, we can say that there are many Catholics in the world who go to Mass, say their prayers, and perhaps even occasionally eat fish on Fridays – who still govern most of their conduct by asking themselves this one simple question: “What’s in it for me?” Many of these people might still be very “kind” and “generous” to certain persons that they happen to know. Who isn’t from time to time? But perhaps, this sense of “kindness” and “generosity” is still governed by a pervasive sense of selfishness and self-interest. In other words: “I’ll be kind to you, but only insofar as you’re being kind back onto me!” And what is that but the spirit of individualism. Let’s take a different example. Again, we can say that there are many Catholics in the world today who go to Mass, say their prayers, and perhaps belong to certain religious clubs or organizations who still govern the bulk of their conduct by asking: “How can I get through the course of my day while incurring the least amount of pain or inconvenience to myself?” Many of these people might still be saying their prayers, perhaps even every day, but what’s often the real substance behind these prayers? “O Lord give me the things that I want, the things that I desire, the things that I believe to be essential to my own sense of happiness and well-being. But Lord, whatever you do: do not make me suffer, do not give me inconvenience, and do not give me pain! In other words, do not give me the Cross!” And that is the spirit of hedonism: the relentless and almost single-minded pursuit of one’s own personal pleasure as one’s ultimate concern. This takes us to our third example. Again, there are many Catholics in the world who go to church, go to confession, and even follow the Commandments who still perhaps ask themselves this question repeatedly: “How can I get myself into the kingdom of heaven, while putting the least amount of effort into my relationship with God?” These people might try their very best to avoid all sorts of serious sin. But, as we know from personal experience, there is a huge difference between simply trying to avoid “serious sin”, and actually trying our very best to please the Lord in all things, especially in those little details which perhaps no one else would ever notice, except Christ Himself! But that’s really the difference between being a “lukewarm Catholic” (or a “minimalist”) and being a true disciple of the Lord.[1]

Gemini’s Take

The parable of the hidden coin in Luke 19 diagnoses the spiritual paralysis of our age: wrapping grace in a handkerchief is the ultimate symbol of a minimalism born of fearful calculation. When viewed through the lens of Catholic teaching, the secular triad of individualism, hedonism, and minimalism directly repudiates the Gospel. Individualism fractures human solidarity by reducing relationships to the transactional question, "What’s in it for me?"—denying the truth that man only realizes his true nature through a sincere gift of self (CCC 1878). Hedonism, meanwhile, treats mere comfort as the supreme good and flees from the Cross, forgetting that true beatitude is found in God alone and that holiness cannot exist without spiritual combat and renunciation (CCC 2015). Together, they culminate in a calculated spiritual minimalism—the deadly sin of acedia or lukewarmness (CCC 2094)—where believers seek the absolute bare minimum required to maintain respectability or avoid damnation, rather than striving for the universal call to holiness (CCC 2013).

In modern American culture, this personal compromise metastasizes into widespread moral decay and institutional collapse. When self-interest and convenience become sovereign, society naturally defaults to a throwaway culture where vulnerable human life—the unborn, the elderly, the suffering—is treated as an inconvenient burden rather than an inviolable image of God (CCC 1700, 2270). A Christianity stripped of the Cross produces lukewarm believers and timid institutions that bury their talents in the dirt out of fear, lacking the moral courage to confront social injustice or evangelize a fracturing world. External political programs, superficial reforms, and cultural nostalgia cannot heal this deep spiritual numbness.

Ultimately, genuine renewal requires confronting the root fear that leads us to hoard our lives rather than risk them for the Kingdom. The one thing that must change is we must replace the pursuit of comfortable self-preservation with total, sacrificial surrender to the Lordship of Christ.

Worldwide Vineyard Tour🍇 Week 4: Sicily, Italy

Theme: “Volcanic Mercy, Marian Flame”
Dates: November 18–25, 2025
Base: Etna Region – Catania, Randazzo, and Castiglione di Sicilia

🗓️ November 18 – Arrival and Volcanic Orientation

Travel from Montepulciano to Catania via Florence (~$68 USD flight).

Lodging at Hotel Centrum Catania (~$74 USD/night).

Evening walk through Catania’s historic center. Toast with Etna Rosso.
Symbolic Act: “Flame and Dust”—bless the mountain, name the mercy.

🗓️ November 19 – Etna North & Vineyard Ascent

Transfer to Randazzo (~$6 USD by train).

Tasting at Tenuta delle Terre Nere (~$28 USD).

Visit Chiesa di Santa Maria.
Symbolic Act: “Ascent and Mercy”—walk the slopes, pour the flame.

🗓️ November 20 – Castiglione di Sicilia & Civic Pouring

Bus to Castiglione (~$4 USD).

Tasting at Gambino Winery (~$25 USD).

Lunch at Ristorante President (~$22 USD).
Symbolic Act: “Civic Flame”—bless the stewards, name the saints.

🗓️ November 21 – Marian Vineyard Walk

Morning walk through Vigna di Madonna delle Grazie (symbolic route).

Journal and name each vine with a Marian title.

Picnic from Mercato di Randazzo (~$10 USD).
Symbolic Act: “Naming the Vines”—plant mercy in Marian soil.

🗓️ November 22 – Vineyard Eucharist & Volcanic Pause

Morning reflection at Etna’s lava fields.

Prepare a Eucharistic meal: bread, olives, and Etna Bianco.

Evening journaling with psalms or poetry.
Symbolic Act: “I believe and I burn”—a Eucharist of flame and fruit.

🗓️ November 23 – Taormina Day Trip: Beauty and Benediction

Train to Taormina (~$9 USD).

Visit Duomo di Taormina and Greek Theatre.

Optional tasting at Barone di Villagrande (~$30 USD).
Symbolic Act: “Benediction and Beauty”—bless the ruins, pour the light.

🗓️ November 24 – Sending Forth

Final toast with Etna Rosso Riserva.

Write a vineyard blessing for the next traveler.
Symbolic Act: “Sicilian Benediction”—send forth the volcanic mercy.

🗓️ November 25 – Travel Day

Depart Sicily for your next vineyard destination.

Suggested next stop: Cyprus or Stellenbosch, depending on your seasonal arc.


💰 Estimated Total Cost: $512 USD

Includes 7 nights lodging, 3 vineyard tastings, 2 symbolic meals, and 1 day trip with transit and picnic.

 

🍽️ Seven-Course Sicilian Ritual Meal: Volcanic Mercy, Marian Flame

🥂 1. Aperitivo – “Flame and Dust”

Dish: Etna Rosso spritz with charred eggplant caponata on crostini

Etna Spritz recipe

Sicilian eggplant caponata recipe

🍜 2. Antipasto – “Ascent and Mercy”

Dish: Wild mushroom and black garlic arancini

Wild mushroom arancini with black garlic aioli

🥗 3. Primo – “Civic Flame”

Dish: Pasta alla Norma with roasted tomatoes and ricotta salata

Pasta alla Norma recipe

🍖 4. Secondo – “Marian Soil”

Dish: Grilled lamb chops with mint-pistachio pesto

Grilled lamb chops with mint-pistachio pesto

🍞 5. Contorno – “Eucharistic Flame”

Dish: Olive focaccia with Etna Bianco pairing

Olive focaccia recipe

🍧 6. Dolce – “Benediction and Beauty”

Dish: Blood orange granita with almond crumble

Blood orange granita with almond cookie crumble

🍷 7. Digestivo – “Sicilian Sending”

Dish: Etna Rosso Riserva toast with fig-stuffed chocolate truffles

Fig-stuffed chocolate truffles recipe

OR HAVE A “BIG NIGHT”

 

The centerpiece of the meal from The Big Night is the iconic Timpano—a dramatic, drum-shaped pasta dome layered with meats, cheeses, eggs, and sauce, baked in a golden crust.

 

Here’s a breakdown of the full menu inspired by the 1996 film The Big Night, which celebrates Italian-American culinary grandeur and emotional depth:

 

🍽️ The Big Night Feast Menu

🥖 Antipasti

Bruschetta with Ricotta and Walnuts
Crusty bread topped with fresh ricotta, lemon zest, garlic, thyme, and toasted walnuts.
Recipe link

Escarole and Fennel Salad
A crisp mix of escarole, shaved fennel, celery, red onion, and pecorino, dressed with lemon and olive oil.
Recipe link

🍝 Primo

Pasta alla Ragu
A rich meat sauce made with ground beef, Italian sausage, rosemary, garlic, and tomatoes, served over fusilli or cavatappi.
Recipe link

🍲 Secondo (Main Event)

Timpano
A show-stopping pasta dome filled with layers of cooked pasta, meatballs, hard-boiled eggs, Genoa salami, mozzarella, provolone, and tomato sauce, all encased in a golden crust.
This dish is the emotional and culinary climax of the film.
How to make Timpano
Dedicated Timpano recipe site

🍷 Accompaniments

Red Wine (Chianti or Barolo)
To match the richness and depth of the meal.

🍰 Dolce

Simple Italian Dessert (Optional)
In the film, dessert is overshadowed by the grandeur of the Timpano, but a light panna cotta or biscotti would be fitting.

Around the Corner

Pray the Rosary  AND Fast too today is “Occult Day”

How to celebrate Nov 18th

Start your day with a hearty breakfast of vichyssoise soup, celebrating National Vichyssoise Day in style.

Head to a local school to volunteer during American Education Week.

Embrace your inner child by watching classic Disney cartoons featuring Mickey Mouse and Minnie Mouse.

 Afterwards, indulge in some apple cider while watching a documentary about undersea sports like underwater hockey.

Take a moment to honor Housing Day by decluttering and organizing your living space.

Wear a tiara or a crown to celebrate National Princess Day, embracing your royal side.

Educate yourself on issues of violence against men on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Men.

Daily Devotions/Practice

Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Absent Fathers (Physically & Spiritually)

Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

Drops of Christ’s Blood

Universal Man Plan

SON OF FURY: THE STORY OF BENJAMIN BLAKE (1942) - THE INHERITANCE MEN RECEIVE AND THE CHARACTER THEY CHOOSE

From Birthright to True Worth
(Based on Son of Fury: The Story of Benjamin Blake, 1942)

When a Man Must Decide Who He Really Is

Every man receives an inheritance.

Some inherit wealth.

Some inherit poverty.

Some inherit opportunity.

Some inherit hardship.

Yet no man is defined by what he receives.

He is defined by what he becomes.

In Son of Fury: The Story of Benjamin Blake, Tyrone Power portrays a young Englishman wrongfully deprived of his rightful inheritance. Through betrayal, hardship, adventure, and perseverance, Benjamin Blake must build a life beyond the circumstances imposed upon him. Along the way he discovers that character is worth more than property and that true success cannot be stolen.

Many men spend their lives focused on what they should have received.

The promotion they deserved.

The respect they earned.

The opportunity they missed.

The inheritance they never got.

The recognition that went elsewhere.

Resentment becomes a prison.

A man continually measuring what he lacks rarely notices what God has already given him.

Scripture contains many men who suffered injustice.

Joseph was sold into slavery.

David was hunted by Saul.

Job lost nearly everything.

Yet each became greater than his circumstances because they trusted God more than their grievances.

The Christian man is not called to deny injustice.

He is called to overcome it.

The lesson is that circumstances influence a man but do not define him.

The verdict is that character is a greater inheritance than wealth.


Film Card - Son of Fury: The Story of Benjamin Blake (1942)

Son of Fury: The Story of Benjamin Blake • Adventure • Historical Drama • Romance • 1h 38m

A young English heir is cheated out of his birthright and forced into hardship before seeking a new life through courage, perseverance, and determination.

Themes: Perseverance & Justice • Character & Inheritance • Resilience & Purpose

Cast: Tyrone Power, Gene Tierney, George Sanders

Production: Twentieth Century-Fox

Cultural Frame: Released during World War II, the film reflected themes of endurance, courage, and personal triumph that resonated strongly with audiences facing uncertainty and sacrifice.


Production & Cultural Setting

The Wartime Hero

Films of the early 1940s often celebrated perseverance against overwhelming odds.

Birth and Status

Traditional societies placed great importance on inheritance, family position, and social rank.

Adventure as Transformation

Journeys across oceans and cultures symbolize personal growth and self-discovery.

Justice Delayed

The story explores the reality that fairness is not always immediate but can still prevail through persistence.

The Noble Character

The highest form of nobility is shown not by title but by virtue.


Story Summary

The Birthright:
Benjamin Blake is denied the inheritance and position that should rightfully be his.

The Betrayal:
Powerful individuals use deceit and influence to keep him from his rightful place.

The Escape:
Seeking a better future, Benjamin leaves England and embraces an uncertain path.

The New Life:
Far from home, he discovers strength and abilities that hardship had hidden.

The Test:
Success forces him to choose whether revenge or justice will guide his future.

The Resolution:
Benjamin ultimately learns that personal worth is measured by character rather than possessions.


Moral & Spiritual Resonances

A. Your Beginning Does Not Determine Your Ending

A difficult start does not prevent a faithful finish.

B. Resentment Steals Joy

Bitterness often harms the victim more than the offender.

C. Adversity Reveals Character

Hardship exposes both weaknesses and strengths.

D. Providence Works Through Trials

God frequently uses setbacks to prepare men for greater purposes.

E. Virtue Outlasts Wealth

Money, status, and possessions fade. Character endures.


Hospitality Pairing - An English Adventure Evening

Food - Colonial Era Supper

  • Roast beef
  • Yorkshire pudding
  • Buttered carrots
  • Apple tart

Drink - Gentleman Traveler

  • English ale
  • Dry cider
  • Brandy
  • Black tea

Cigar

  • Smooth Sumatra

Atmosphere - A Journey of Character

  • Classical orchestral music
  • Candlelight
  • Antique maps and nautical décor
  • Discussion about perseverance, justice, and providence

Personal Reflection

Do I spend more time focusing on what I lost than on what I still possess?

What injustice do I need to place into God's hands?

Have disappointments made me stronger or more bitter?

Where has hardship revealed hidden strengths?

Am I building character as carefully as I would build wealth?

What legacy am I truly leaving behind?

Benjamin Blake begins by seeking what belongs to him.

He ends by becoming worthy of what he receives.

That is the pattern found throughout Scripture.

Joseph received Egypt only after prison.

David received a kingdom only after exile.

Moses received leadership only after years in the wilderness.

Even Christ entered glory through sacrifice.

God is often less concerned with what a man owns than with what a man becomes.

The world measures inheritance by possessions.

God measures inheritance by faithfulness.

For in the end, a righteous character is a treasure no thief can steal and no injustice can take away.


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