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“Qui Deo confidit, omnia facere potest.” He who trusts in God can do all things.

Monday, November 3, 2025


Sun, Nov 3 – All Souls Day

Virtue: Mercy & Memory

Cigar: Deep, contemplative (Oscuro)

Bourbon: Elijah Craig Barrel Proof – rich, solemn

Reflection: “Who do I carry in prayer and remembrance?”

Each morning, as I rise into ritual and rhythm, I ask not only what must be done, but who must be remembered. This question is not a burden—it’s a blessing. A sacred inventory. A litany of love.

1. Those Anchored in My Story

Family and ancestors whose love or wounds shaped my path.

Mentors and companions who offered wisdom, challenge, or grace.

Communities I’ve served or been shaped by—liturgical, civic, creative.

2. Those Entrusted to Me

Pilgrims and seekers whose journeys I’ve choreographed or blessed.

Guests and strangers welcomed through hospitality, ritual, or table.

The forgotten or suffering—those whose names I may never know, but whose dignity I honor.

3. Those Symbolic and Archetypal

Saints and prophets whose lives echo my own longings.

Figures from film or scripture who embody mercy, courage, or repair.

Places and landscapes that hold spiritual resonance—Assisi, the South Pole, Verde Valley.
4. Those I’ve Become

Past selves—the boy who knelt at the Eucharist in Antarctica, the steward of cinematic lectionaries, the choreographer of ritual meals.

Future selves—the elder who blesses the next generation, the mystic who leafs the world behind.
๐ŸŒฟ Ritual Prompt
Tonight, light a candle. Speak aloud the names or symbols of those you carry. Let each flame be a blessing, each silence a benediction.


 Monday Night at the Movies

๐Ÿ”ธ November 2025 – Poverty, Resurrection, and Hidden Grace

Nov 3 – The Bicycle Thieves (1948)
Nov 10 – Umberto D (1952)
Nov 17 – Ordet (1955)
Nov 24 – Mouchette (1967)

“The Bicycle Thieves” (1948) is a cinematic parable of poverty, paternal love, and the fragile dignity of the human spirit—offering profound Catholic insights into suffering, moral failure, and grace.


๐ŸŽฌ Film Summary: “The Bicycle Thieves” (1948)

Set in post-World War II Rome, The Bicycle Thieves follows Antonio Ricci, an unemployed father who finally secures a job pasting posters—on the condition that he owns a bicycle. His wife, Maria, pawns their bedsheets to retrieve his bike from the pawnshop, a sacrifice that underscores their poverty and hope.

On his first day of work, Antonio’s bicycle is stolen. With little help from the police, he and his young son Bruno scour the city in a desperate search. Their journey takes them through markets, churches, and even a brothel, exposing the harsh realities of postwar life. Antonio eventually spots the thief but lacks proof to reclaim the bike. In a moment of despair, he attempts to steal a bicycle himself—only to be caught and humiliated in front of his son. The bike’s owner, moved by Bruno’s tears, chooses not to press charges. The film ends with Antonio and Bruno walking away hand in hand, their future uncertain but their bond intact.


✝️ Catholic Lessons and Themes

1. The Dignity of Work and the Human Person
Antonio’s bicycle is more than a possession—it’s his livelihood, his dignity. The film echoes Catholic social teaching that work is a means of participating in God’s creation and that every person deserves the means to support their family.

2. Poverty and Moral Ambiguity
The film doesn’t romanticize poverty. It shows how desperation can blur moral lines: Antonio, once a victim of theft, becomes a would-be thief. This echoes the Catholic understanding of structural sin—how unjust systems can lead individuals into moral compromise.

3. The Father-Son Relationship as Icon of Divine Love
Bruno’s unwavering loyalty, even after witnessing his father’s fall, mirrors the unconditional love of the Father. His silent forgiveness becomes a moment of hidden grace, where love transcends shame.

4. Resurrection in Humiliation
Antonio’s public disgrace is a kind of crucifixion. But the film ends not in despair, but in a quiet resurrection: Bruno takes his father’s hand. In that gesture, we glimpse mercy, reconciliation, and the possibility of redemption.

5. The Church as Shelter and Silence
Antonio and Bruno briefly take refuge in a church, but it offers no solution—only a moment of stillness. This reflects the tension between institutional religion and the lived Gospel, where grace often appears outside formal structures.

6. The Hidden Christ in the Crowd
The film’s final image—Antonio and Bruno disappearing into the crowd—evokes the anonymous Christ among the poor. As the Vatican’s 1995 film list notes, Bicycle Thieves belongs in the “Values” category, not because it preaches, but because it reveals.


Christopher’s Corner

·         Eat waffles and Pray for the assistance of the Angels

·         Spirit Hour: Jรคgermeister

·         Foodie-

o   ๐ŸฆŒ St. Hubert Day Feast: 7-Course Meal

§  1. Hors d’oeuvre – Wild Mushroom Crostini
Sautรฉed mushrooms with garlic and thyme on toasted baguette slices. A forest-floor welcome to the feast.

§  2. Potage – Cream of Leek and Chicken Gratin with Bacon
Hearty and comforting, this soup from St-Hubert’s own archive evokes autumnal warmth. (Search “Cream of Leek and Chicken Gratin”)

§  3. Poisson – Trout Almondine or Smoked Salmon Vol-au-Vent
A nod to forest streams and refined French technique. (Search “Salmon Vol-au-Vent”)

§  4. Entrรฉe – Venison Medallions with Juniper Berry Sauce
The centerpiece: tender venison paired with woodland spice. A Eucharistic echo of sacrifice and abundance.

·         5. Fromage – Baked Brie with Cranberry and Walnuts
Warm brie topped with tart berries and nuts—symbolic of forest harvest and communal joy.

§  6. Dessert – Sugar Pie Sundae or Apple Cider Tart
A Quebecois classic or orchard-inspired tart. (Search “Sugar Pie Sundae”)

§  7. Digestif – Ice Cider Pairing Guide
Finish with chilled ice cider or brandy infused with rosemary or thyme. A toast to Hubert’s vision and the Eucharistic hunt.

·         MondayLitany of Humility

Drops of Christ’s Blood     

·         How to celebrate Nov 3

o   Great British Game Week

§  Polar Bear Week

·         Japanese Culture Day

o   National Sandwich Day

§  National Pepper Month-I bet you a dollar you can’t eat one.

Here’s your Bucket List Trip [3] – Part 2, formatted for Days 8–14 (November 3–9, 2025), continuing the 70-degree pilgrimage with themes of return, reverence, and Eucharistic hospitality. This layout mirrors the clarity and ritual rhythm of Days 1–7, ready for blog sharing or hospitality guide integration:


๐Ÿงญ Bucket List Trip [3] – Part 2: USA 70-Degree Year Journey

Dates: November 3–9, 2025
Theme: Return and Reverence
Route: El Paso → Marfa → Fort Davis → Silver City → Tucson
Style: Desert monasticism, artistic pilgrimage, and Eucharistic return
Climate Alignment: Daily highs 68–74°F


๐Ÿ’ฐ Estimated Cost Overview (Nov 3–9)

Category Estimated Cost
Lodging (7 nights) $490
Food (daily meals) $210
Fuel (~600 miles) $100
Symbolic extras $60
Total Estimate $860

๐Ÿœ️ Day 1 – Monday, November 3

Route: El Paso → Marfa (~200 miles)
Symbol: Desert of the Heart
Ritual Prompt: “The desert remembers what we forget—truth, silence, and presence.”

  • Drive scenic US-90 to Marfa
  • Visit Chinati Foundation or Marfa Lights Viewing Area
  • ๐Ÿ›️ Stay: Hotel Saint George (~$110)
  • ๐Ÿฝ️ Foodie Stop: Cochineal – seasonal desert fare (~$30)

๐Ÿ”ญ Day 2 – Tuesday, November 4

Location: Fort Davis
Symbol: Watchtower of Wonder
Ritual Prompt: “Wonder is a form of prayer—lifted through stars, rooted in awe.”

  • Visit McDonald Observatory
  • Hike Davis Mountains State Park
  • ๐Ÿ›️ Stay: Stone Village Tourist Camp (~$80)
  • ๐Ÿฅ˜ Foodie Stop: Blue Mountain Bistro – comfort food with a view (~$25)

๐Ÿง‚ Day 3 – Wednesday, November 5

Route: Fort Davis → Silver City (~300 miles)
Symbol: Salt of the Earth
Ritual Prompt: “The sacred is seasoned by the ordinary—salt, sweat, and story.”

  • Scenic drive via Van Horn and Deming
  • Pause at City of Rocks State Park
  • ๐Ÿ›️ Stay: Murray Hotel, Silver City (~$85)
  • ๐ŸŒฎ Foodie Stop: Adobe Springs Cafรฉ – hearty New Mexican fare (~$20)

๐Ÿ•Š️ Day 4 – Thursday, November 6

Location: Silver City
Symbol: Hidden Wellspring
Ritual Prompt: “Even in dry places, grace flows unseen.”

  • Visit Gila Cliff Dwellings or Franciscan retreat site
  • Write a reflection: “What grace has surprised me?”
  • ๐Ÿ›️ Stay: Murray Hotel (~$85)
  • ๐Ÿท Foodie Stop: Little Toad Creek Brewery & Distillery (~$25)

๐ŸŒ„ Day 5 – Friday, November 7

Route: Silver City → Tucson (~160 miles)
Symbol: Return to the Table
Ritual Prompt: “The table is where memory becomes communion.”

  • Return via Lordsburg and I-10
  • Pause at San Xavier del Bac Mission
  • ๐Ÿ›️ Stay: Adobe Rose Inn, Tucson (~$90)
  • ๐Ÿง€ Foodie Stop: Time Market – artisan pizza and wine (~$25)

๐Ÿ•ฏ️ Day 6 – Saturday, November 8

Location: Tucson
Symbol: Light of the Living
Ritual Prompt: “To live is to remember forward—with light, with love.”

  • Morning prayer walk in Sabino Canyon
  • Create a votive offering or light a candle at St. Augustine Cathedral
  • ๐Ÿ›️ Stay: Adobe Rose Inn (~$90)
  • ๐Ÿฝ️ Foodie Stop: Feast – seasonal tasting menu (~$35)

๐ŸŒฟ Day 7 – Sunday, November 9

Location: Tucson
Symbol: Benediction of the Borderlands
Ritual Prompt: “Blessing is the borderland’s gift—given, not grasped.”

  • Attend Mass or Eucharistic celebration
  • Write blog post: “What the border taught me about communion”
  • ๐Ÿ›️ Optional Stay: Hacienda Del Sol (~$120)
  • ๐Ÿงบ Foodie Stop: Vineyard-style brunch or picnic (~$20)




NOVEMBER 3 Monday

St. Hubert patron of hunters 

John, Chapter 5, Verse 20

For the Father LOVES his Son and shows him everything that he himself does, and he will show him greater works than these, so that you may be amazed. 

Does God derive anything from having us fear Him? 

His only wish is to see us truly growing and fruitful. He made us and as a loving father knows our needs both physical and spiritual. If we have a loving fear of our father, we are compelled by the Holy Spirit into spiritual leadership avoiding sloth which often comes as a result of being stuck in a victim mentality or not letting go of rage by forgiving the offender. 

Today seek the Father’s compassion by going to confession then arise and grow in spiritual leadership. 

As we grow in our spiritual leadership[1] we tend to be:

 

·         Confident in God

·         Know God

·         Seek God’s will

·         Self-sacrifice

·         Serve all

·         Motivated by love

·         Trust the Holy Spirit

·         Lead others

 

Arbinger[2]

 

Our mindset connects or disconnects us with others—there are a number of ways we can “see” others from an inward mindset. Traditionally, Arbinger has categorized these three ways of seeing others as obstacles, vehicles or simply irrelevant.

1.      When I’m seeing someone as an obstacle, I see them as “in my way”, or as a hindrance to what I’m seeking to accomplish.

2.      When I’m seeing someone as a vehicle, I use them to get me what I want, or where I need to go. They might have information or connections that are valuable to me, so I “play nice” until I get what I want.

3.      When someone is irrelevant to me, I don’t care about them and likely don’t allow their humanity to impact me in any way.

All three of these labels are ultimately ways that I objectify others. When I’m seeing someone as an obstacle, vehicle or irrelevancy, I’m not seeing them as a human being with needs, concerns, hopes and fears similar to my own. Think of someone who you struggle to see as a person. Perhaps they get on your nerves frequently, or perhaps you avoid them at all costs. This person might be a coworker, a family member, a neighbor—someone with whom you feel your relationship could improve.

 

How do you see this particular person?

 

Are they often an obstacle?

 

A vehicle?

 

Mostly irrelevant?

 

If the person you have in mind feels like an obstacle to you, consider how you might not be receiving their goodness or kindness.

 

If this person feels more like a vehicle to you, contemplate what needs they might have that you’re failing to see?

 

Are you looking to simply “get”, or are you willing to give?

 

For someone you’re seeing as irrelevant, what must it feel like for him or her to feel ignored, barely noticed or hardly cared about?

 

Have you ever been seen as an obstacle, a vehicle or irrelevant?

How did it feel?

 

Ponder what underlying qualities you might be missing in the person you’re thinking of.

 

What might the people who love them see in them?

 

Now here is the big question: Do I as a Catholic see the Christ our Lord in the Eucharist as an obstacle, a vehicle or as irrelevant?

Copilot’s Take

On November 3, the feast of St. Hubert—the patron of hunters—invites us to reflect on the spiritual pursuit of holiness, not through fear that diminishes, but through awe that awakens. In John 5:20, we’re reminded that the Father loves the Son and reveals His works so that we may be amazed. God does not desire fear for its own sake; He longs for our growth and fruitfulness. A reverent fear, born of love, compels us to rise from sloth and victimhood, to forgive, and to lead with compassion. When we go to confession, we receive the Father’s mercy and are empowered to embody spiritual leadership—marked by confidence in God, sacrificial service, and trust in the Holy Spirit. The Arbinger framework challenges us to examine how we see others: as obstacles, vehicles, or irrelevant. These mindsets distort our relationships and can even affect how we approach the Eucharist. Do we treat Christ as a means to an end, a challenge to our comfort, or something we ignore? True spiritual leadership begins when we see others—and Christ Himself—as fully human, fully present, and worthy of love. Today, let us confess, receive, and lead with eyes wide open.

St. Hubert[3]

Late in the eighth century, so runs the story, a hunter named Hubert, neither better nor worse than he should have been, was tracking a stag through the forest of the Ardennes. As he readied himself to shoot the animal with his arrow, he was startled when the stag turned suddenly in its flight, and he saw between its antlers a luminous cross. This experience caused Hubert to change his way of life, and he never hunted again. Yet only a few centuries later he was known as the patron of hunters, and is a saint greatly honored in France and Belgium.

Saint Hubert lived a full life. He became bishop of Tongres and traveled through his huge diocese on horseback and by boat, preaching and building churches to the glory of God. He was the friend of the great of his day — Pepin of Heristal and Charles Martel among them — and also of the poor. In particular his heart went out to prisoners, and he would secretly place food for them before their dungeon windows. As he died, he said to those about him, "Stretch the pallium over my mouth for I am now going to give back to God the soul I received from Him."

In parts of France and Belgium there has long been a custom of holding stag hunts on Saint Hubert's Day, and the hunters gather before the chase for Mass and the blessing of men and horses and dogs. After the hunt is over, those taking part gather for a bountiful breakfast consisting of fish, meat, salad, cheese, and dessert. Naturally the meat is venison of some sort, and the salad may well be one of dandelion greens.

Excerpted from Feast Day Cookbook

Patron: Archers; dog bite; dogs; forest workers; furriers; hunters; hunting; huntsmen; hydrophobia; liege, Belgium; machinists; mad dogs; mathematicians; metal workers; precision instrument makers; rabies; smelters; trappers.

Things to Do:

·         Have roast venison in honor of St. Hubert, patron of hunters.

·         Have some Jagermeister.

·         Feast of the day: Wild Boar Bolognese Sauce.

·         Join the International Order of Saint Hubertus.

Please pray for the soul of a great priest and friend of mine who I had the pleasure of knowing while stationed in Belgium-Father Paul Wolff as it was, he who introduced me to St. Hubert.

The Wolff of the Ardennes

 

Men are frequently blinded by fear and as a result often harmed themselves. The grace of God gives confidence to see the right and to stand when called. Father Paul was called to stand and became General Patton’s guide during the “Battle of the Bulge” while he was still a teen. Father Paul Wolff was 15 years old when he first joined the Belgium resistance during the years of the Nazi occupation of World War II. He was the youngest member of the Belgium resistance. Unfortunately, he and other members of his group were captured and at 17 he was tortured, condemned to death and imprison in the Nazi Prison in Liege, Belgium. There he languished yet his faith would not allow him to lose all hope and the resistance still worked to get him and the others (256) out. Part of the plan was to get a radio to the prisoners. To do this the resistance secreted small parts of a crystal radio inside bars of soap. Interestingly these were “Lever” brother bars of soap and were large about the size of a brick. Father Paul related that during the Nazi occupation not all Jews were in German prisons if they were of use to the Nazi’s. In this case the soap bars were made by the Lever Jews, and the radio parts were easily hidden inside the soap bars. Father Paul stated that when they received the soap, they then washed their hands raw in wearing away the soap to get to the radio part. Then after several bars they constructed the radio which was the Morse code type. Father Paul typed in code in English which he spoke along with German and French the words over and over “SOS SOS 256 prisoners in Liege prison condemned to death SOS SOS.” They hoped someone would get the message and somehow, they would be rescued. All they had was hope.

 

Father also related that it drove the Nazi’s crazy because they intercepted the message but never suspected it was coming from the prison. Father Paul said that in the cell they were in there was only one barred window, but it was so high that to look out it required a person to stand on the shoulders of a fellow prisoner. He further relayed that they when they would see women that were friendly with the guards coming and going, they would call them the nastiest things they could think of calling them. Yet one day during an air raid while the guards were hiding as deep as they could go; one of these young women (secret agent) came and taking the heel of her shoe wrote on the pavement that during the air raid they are going to be rescued by commandoes, and they were. Father Paul stated neither he nor the others ever lost hope.

After his escape he went underground. He was a friend of King Leopold III. He served as General Patton's Belgian guide during the battle of the bulge.

December 24, 1944

Father Paul communicated to me the tale about the battle of the bulge that has not been recorded in history. During WWII the US Army was segregated and black men were not mixed with white men. Black men mostly served in support roles such as transportation and as cooks, etc. During the Battle of the Bulge’ Hitler sent in a special operations team to confuse and destroy the American Army. It was composed of American NAZI’s and German’s, who spoke perfect American slang, knew the culture, baseball stuff, etc. These Spec Ops were equipped with American Uniforms and equipment that was captured by Gen. Rommel from North Africa. Father Wolff was at a meeting with Gen. Patton, Bradley, Eisenhower, and the English Gen. Montgomery in Luxembourg City on the evening of Dec. 24th, 1944. The Generals were very excited and afraid because of the effect these NAZI spec ops were having in the warzone and since they had murdered many men. They did not know what to do. Patton, who was a visionary, suddenly stood up and said, I know exactly what to do. From this time forward nothing in the American Army will move without a black American in the group. Patton knew there were no black NAZI’s. As a result, black units were moved forward and integrated and as far as I know this was the first time in American History since the Civil War. As a result, the NAZI spec ops team was neutralized.

Basic Elk Hunting Workout Program[4]

Elk hunters who want to consistently harvest elk on public land need to be in top physical condition.  For those of you who have had success in the past, you know that once your elk is on the ground, the real work begins. Typically, the most physically demanding part of any elk hunt is carrying 70 to 100 pounds of elk meat and gear out of the backcountry. Doing this multiple times in a short period will truly test your physical limits.  Bottom line: elk are massive animals that live in rugged country – bring your “A” game and be ready for a challenge!

I realize most of us don’t have time to spend 2 hours in the gym every day getting ready to go on a fall elk hunt. However, no matter where you are on the fitness spectrum, there is always room for improvement, and it requires some dedication and determination to get results. When I am out elk hunting, there is no greater sense of accomplishment than spotting an elk or hearing a bull down in the bottom of a deep canyon and knowing I can go after that elk with no physical reservations. Basically, if I can see it or hear it, I can hunt it.

In this week’s feature article, I would like to introduce you to a basic workout program that will help you build both strength and endurance.  I like this program because it can be personalized based on your current strength and conditioning level and can be done in less than an hour in the gym per workout.   In other words, I believe the results of this program will benefit both those who regularly exercise and those who need to get started. Elk season is less than six months away. It’s go time!

I have used this program for 90 days and it works!  The program requires you to work out three times a week and focuses on only five lifts (Squats, Bench Press, Overhead Press, Barbell Rows, and Dead Lifts). Because of the focus on strength and endurance, all of these lifts are full body lifts meaning they focus on large, major muscle groups rather than small isolation muscle groups.  It is recommended that these lifts be broken up into an A workout and a B Workout (see chart below).

Workout A

Squat – 5X5

Bench Press – 5X5

Barbell Rows – 5X5

Workout B

Squat – 5X5

Overhead Press – 5X5

Deadlift* – 3X5

Since your legs will get you in and out of the mountains, you will be doing squats for both workouts.  You will perform each of these lifts by doing 5 sets of 5 reps except for the deadlift, which you will do 3 sets of 5 reps. If you’re new to lifting, just start with the 45-pound bar. If you have experience lifting, 45 lbs may seem a little light.  However, you will increase the weight by 5 lbs every time you complete your 5 sets of 5 reps. I recommend you start with lower weight and make sure your form is correct before you get into the heavier weights.

30 Day Sample Workout

Week 1 – Monday (Workout A), Wednesday (Workout B), Friday (Workout A)

Week 2 – Monday (Workout B), Wednesday (Workout A), Friday (Workout B)

Week 3 – Monday (Workout A), Wednesday (Workout B), Friday (Workout A)

Week 4 – Monday (Workout B), Wednesday (Workout A), Friday (Workout B)

Remember that after you complete all sets for a given workout, increase the weight by 5 lbs. for the next workout.  (This means adding 2 ½ lbs. to each side of the bar) Technically you will be adding 10 lbs. per week when doing the same workout twice in that week.

Bible in a Year Day 121 Cycle of Violence 

Fr. Mike talks about how revenge and violence can become a cycle that doesn't end until someone chooses to end it. He also points out how the genealogy in 1 Chronicles reflects the genealogy of Christ. The reading for today are 2 Samuel 2, 1 Chronicles 2, and Psalm 24.

Daily Devotions

·         Today in honor of the Holy Trinity do the Divine Office giving your day to God. To honor God REST: no shopping after 6 pm Saturday till Monday. Don’t forget the internet.

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: An increase of the Faithful.

·         Litany of the Most Precious Blood of Jesus

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary




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