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Friday, October 31, 2025

Oct 31 (Thu) Vigil of All Saints (Anti-Halloween) Mystery, communion, resistance Stagg Jr. – bold, unfiltered Padron 1926 Maduro “Where am I...

Character is Destiny-Catholic Edition 33 day prayer in preparation to All Saints to start-Sep 29

Character is Destiny-Catholic Edition 33 day prayer in preparation to All Saints to start-Sep 29
“Qui Deo confidit, omnia facere potest.” He who trusts in God can do all things.

Sunday, November 2, 2025

 

Sat, Nov 2 – Saturday Reflection

Virtue: Hope in Mourning
Cigar: Smooth, earthy (Sumatra)
Bourbon: Four Roses Small Batch – gentle, layered
Reflection“Where does grief become grace?”

Grief becomes grace in the quiet places where sorrow is neither denied nor rushed, but honored as sacred ground. It is in the naming of what was lost, the gentle witnessing of pain by others, and the slow return to wounded places with prayer or poetry that grief begins to transfigure. Grace does not erase the ache—it enters it, dwells within it, and makes it fertile. When sorrow is offered—through service, storytelling, or ritual—it becomes generative. A candle lit, a meal shared, a stone carried: these are not distractions from grief, but sacraments of grace. In this way, grief becomes not just endured, but transformed—into tenderness, into wisdom, into blessing.

Sunday matinee-from Catholic Movies


📖 Prehistoric & Mythic Time

Theme: Creation, Awe, and the Mystery of Divine Order

    3-2001: A Space Odyssey — Prehistoric & Future

            Drink: Star Child Martini (vodka, elderflower liqueur, Blue Curaçao)

                        Meal: Blue Corn Polenta with Lemon Zest and Edible Flowers

                                    Symbol: Cosmic rebirth and divine encounter


A powerful All Souls Day film is La Strada (1954), which Pope Francis called his favorite movie—an elegy of suffering, dignity, and hidden grace that mirrors Catholic themes of death, memory, and redemption.


🎬 Why La Strada Is Ideal for All Souls Day

1. A Parable of the Forgotten and the Redeemed
Gelsomina, sold by her family to the brutish Zampanò, becomes a Christ-figure—offering love, enduring abuse, and ultimately dying alone. Her life seems wasted, yet her memory transforms Zampanò, who weeps on a beach in the final scene. This echoes the All Souls Day theme: the dead are not forgotten, and their lives continue to shape the living.

2. The Fool’s Pebble: Every Life Has Meaning
Il Matto tells Gelsomina, “Even this pebble has a purpose.” This line, quoted by Pope Francis in his Easter homily, affirms the Catholic belief that no soul is useless, no suffering is wasted.

3. Gelsomina’s Vocation as Hidden Holiness
Though mocked and discarded, Gelsomina lives with childlike wonder and mercy. A nun tells her that her itinerant life resembles the sisters’ own detachment. Her suffering becomes a silent offering—a Eucharistic witness in the margins.

4. Zampanò’s Tears as Resurrection
His final breakdown is a moment of grace. Though he cannot undo his cruelty, he is changed by Gelsomina’s memory. This reflects the All Souls Day hope: that the dead intercede, and the living are still redeemable.


🕯️ Suggested Ritual for All Souls Day Viewing

  • Film: La Strada (1954)
  • Meal: Lentil soup, rustic bread, and red wine—evoking the road, the poor, and the blood of mercy
  • Drink pairing: A small glass of limoncello—bittersweet, like memory and grace
  • Ritual: After the film, invite guests to name someone they’ve lost. Light a candle for each name, and place a small stone beside it, whispering: “Even this has a purpose.”



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