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NOVEMBER 22 Saturday-Saint Cecilia, Virgin and Martyr

Here’s your blog-ready guide for the next pilgrimage week:


🎓 University Faith Traditions – Salamanca, Spain

Dates: November 23–29, 2025
Theme: Wisdom, Dialogue, and Enduring Light

Salamanca is a city where faith and reason have flourished side by side for centuries. Founded in 1218, the University of Salamanca became a beacon of theological, legal, and philosophical inquiry—shaped by Dominican scholars, cathedral schools, and civic debate. This week invites pilgrims to walk the cloisters, climb the towers, and reflect on the legacy of spiritual scholarship.


🗓️ Daily Itinerary & Symbolic Acts

Nov 23: Arrival & Cathedral Wisdom

·         🕍 Symbolic Act: “Twin Foundations”
Begin with Mass at the
New Cathedral and walk through the Old Cathedral, praying for continuity between tradition and renewal.

·         🛏️ Stay: Hotel Hospes Palacio de San Esteban or Room Mate Vega

Nov 24: Scholastic Roots

·         🕊️ Symbolic Act: “Courtyard of Contemplation”
Visit the
Escuelas Menores and pause beneath the “Sky of Salamanca” mural. Pray for educators and students.

·         Optional: Spot the frog of Salamanca on the university façade—a symbol of perseverance.

Nov 25: Dominican Dialogue

·         🕍 Symbolic Act: “Justice and Mercy”
Visit the
Convent of San Esteban, where Dominicans debated the rights of indigenous peoples. Pray for ethical clarity in global discourse.

Nov 26: Feminine Cloister

·         🏡 Symbolic Act: “Wisdom of the Sisters”
Visit the
Convent of Las Dueñas and reflect on monastic hospitality and feminine theological insight.

Nov 27: Signs of Endurance

·         🐸 Symbolic Act: “Frog of Perseverance”
Return to the university façade and pray for endurance in study, vocation, and civic witness.

Nov 28: Benediction & Perspective

·         🕊️ Symbolic Act: “Tower of Light”
Climb the
Ieronimus Tower for panoramic views. Offer a final blessing for spiritual perspective and civic clarity.

Nov 29: University of Light

·         🎓 Symbolic Act: “Seal of Gratitude”
Walk the
University of Salamanca campus and seal your week with gratitude for the legacy of faith and reason.


💶 Cost Breakdown (Per Person)

Category

Budget (USD)

Mid-Range (USD)

Lodging (6 nights)

$180–$300

$360–$600

Meals

$90–$150

$180–$300

Transport

$30–$60

$60–$120

Sightseeing & Tips

$30–$60

$60–$120

Total Estimate

$330–$570

$660–$1,140


Would you like a ritual meal titled “The Supper of Faith and Reason” to accompany this week? I can pair each day with a symbolic dish and reflection.

 

Tobit, Chapter 4, Verse 21

Do not FEAR, son, that we have lived in poverty. You will have great wealth, if you fear God, avoid all sin, and do what is good before the Lord your God.”

 

Tobit is advising his son to be a mensch. A person with high integrity and honesty.

 

The other day, while going through my personal notes, I ran across some records I had taken on a lecture on “life’s most important learning’s” I would like to share.

 

·       Be a Mensch.

·       Never stop learning.

·       Love and be loved.

·       Don’t be afraid to take risks.

·       Set the example.

·       Take care of your health.

·       Take care of your family.

·       Watch your mouth.

·       One person can make a difference.

·       Life is a test/challenge; live it!

In other words, a mensch has Self-control which is the ability to control one's emotions, behavior, and desires in the face of external demands in order to function in society. (Matt DeLisi)

 

A great example of a man who conquered self-control is George Washington. Washington was a self-made man who learned to govern himself before he governed our great country. Washington was a passionate man by nature, yet he was famous for his reserve and graciousness to others. Washington worked on himself very hard to control his temper and to not be sensitive to criticism. Washington disciplined his passionate nature with iron will and self-control. Washington wrote, “Every action done in company ought to be with some sign of respect, to those that are present” and, “Labor to keep alive in your breast the little spark of celestial fire called conscience.” He strove to be a man of unquestionable dignity and manners. He was modest and wore clothes that were fine and neat but never showy. He was consciously groomed and was seldom discourteous to anyone, of higher or lower station in life. He knew his strengths as well as his weaknesses; there was no hubris in him. He understood the nature of his countrymen as well as he understood his own. He knew we are all flawed, that we must always be alert to the danger of ungoverned appetites and must strive to control and improve our nature. And through the constant application of his self-control, he became, in fact, the father of our country. He imprinted his character on this nation, and in that sense, we are all his descendants, a people famous for our constant struggle to improve. We are never so removed from the failings of our nature that we cannot stand more improvement, but neither are we so removed from Washington’s magnificent example that we dare not dream we can achieve it.[1]

 

A person with self-control is a person of courage. Courage is the ability and willingness to confront fear, pain, danger, uncertainty, or intimidation. Physical courage is courage in the face of physical pain, hardship, death, or threat of death, while moral courage is the ability to act rightly in the face of popular opposition, shame, scandal, or discouragement.

St. Cecilia[2]

Her martyrdom probably occurred during the reign of Emperor Alexander Severus, about the year 230. In 1599 her grave was opened, and her body found in a coffin of cypress wood. It lay incorrupt, as if she had just breathed forth her soul. Since the Middle Ages, Cecilia has been honored as patroness of Church music. Cecilia led a life of prayer and meditation and had vowed lifelong virginity, but a youth by the name of Valerian, relying upon the approval of her parents, hoped to marry her. When the wedding night arrived, she confided to Valerian, "There is a secret, Valerian, I wish to tell you. I have as a lover an angel of God who jealously guards my body." Valerian promised to believe in Christ if he would be enabled to see that angel. Cecilia explained how such was impossible without baptism, and Valerian consented to be baptized. After he was baptized by Pope Urban and had returned "He found Cecilia in her little room lost in prayer, and next to her the angel of the Lord was standing. When Valerian saw the angel, he was seized with great terror." The angel handed to them a bouquet of fiery red roses and snow-white lilies as a reward for Cecilia's love of chastity, a bouquet that would not wither, yet would be visible only to those who love chastity. As a further favor Valerian besought the conversion of his brother Tiburtius. Upon arriving to congratulate the newlyweds, Tiburtius was astounded by the unspeakably beautiful roses and lilies. As soon as he was informed regarding their origin, he too asked for the waters of baptism. "St. Cecilia said to Tiburtius: Today I acknowledge you as a brother-in-law, because the love of God has made you despise the idols. Just as the love of God gave me your brother as a spouse, so it has given you to me as a brother in-law."

When Almachius, the prefect, heard of the conversions, he ordered Maximus, his officer, to arrest and imprison all of them. Before being put to death, they instructed Maximus and his family, and baptized them during the night preceding execution. At dawn Cecilia roused the two brothers to struggle heroically for Christ, as the glow of morning disappeared, Cecilia called: "Arise, soldiers of Christ, throw away the works of darkness and put on the armor of light." Cecilia pursued her victory as the soldiers willingly listened, "We believe that Christ is the true Son of God, who has chosen such a servant." Led before the prefect, she professed her faith in Christ, "We profess His holy Name and we will not deny Him."

In order to avoid further show, the prefect commanded her to be suffocated in the baths. She remained unharmed and prayed, "I thank You, Father of my Lord Jesus Christ that through Your Son the fire was extinguished at my side." Beheading was next in order. The executioner made three attempts (the law prohibited more) and let her lie in her blood. She lived for three days, encouraging the poor and dedicating her home into a church.

33 days to Christmas-Start the 33 days to Eucharistic Glory[3]

Overview: At critical times throughout Salvation History, God's people have been invited to consecrate themselves. We are at one of those critical times in history, and consecrate ourselves, our families, our country, and indeed, the whole world to the Eucharist may make all the difference.

33 Days to Eucharistic Glory is the first ever Eucharistic Consecration. This unprecedented spiritual resource presents profound truths, astonishing historical facts, powerful practical examples, a daily virtue to adopt, extraordinary prayers, and inspiring stories—all in an easy-to-follow daily format.

Life is a pilgrimage. It is a sacred journey toward our eternal home with God. Learn what it means to be a pilgrim in a world that’s constantly trying to reduce you to a tourist and consumer. Journey with Mother Teresa, John Paul II, Thérèse of Lisieux, Maximilian Kolbe, Thomas Aquinas, Sister Faustina, the Children of Fatima, and Mary the Mother of God to experience Jesus in the Eucharist like never before.

Prepare yourself for an explosion of grace in your life. Grace is the assistance God gives us to do what is good, true, noble, and right. And there is no better way to receive God's grace than through the Eucharist. Over the next thirty-three days you will learn how these great saints and others lived in Eucharistic Glory.

This extraordinary spiritual guide will forever change the way you spend time with Jesus in the Eucharist.

Want to start a small group? Download our 33 Days to Eucharistic Glory Study Guide

Day 1

On this first day seek to give your entire mind to God through the virtue of Humility.

Copilot:

Incorporating Humility into Your Spiritual Practice

Starting with humility sets a strong foundation for any spiritual journey. Here are some ways you can bring humility into your daily life and spiritual practices:

Reflective Practices

  1. Daily Reflection: Spend a few minutes each day reflecting on your actions, thoughts, and feelings. Acknowledge both your strengths and weaknesses.
  2. Prayer or Meditation: Use this time to seek guidance and express gratitude for the support and wisdom you receive.
  3. Journaling: Write about moments where you practiced humility and areas where you could improve. This can help you track your progress and stay mindful.

Actions of Humility

  1. Service to Others: Engage in acts of service and kindness without expecting anything in return. This could be volunteering, helping a neighbor, or even small daily acts of kindness.
  2. Listening More: Make a conscious effort to listen to others without interrupting or preparing your response. Truly understanding others’ perspectives can deepen your empathy.
  3. Admitting Faults: When you make a mistake, acknowledge it openly and seek to make amends. This can be difficult but is a powerful act of humility.

Mindful Living

  1. Simple Living: Focus on what you need rather than what you want. This could mean decluttering your space, simplifying your routines, or practicing contentment with what you have.
  2. Gratitude: Regularly express gratitude for the small and large blessings in your life. This helps shift your focus from what’s lacking to what’s abundant.
  3. Learning from Others: Approach every person and situation as a learning opportunity. Be open to the lessons they offer, whether they’re pleasant or challenging.

Catechism of the Catholic Church

PART TWO: THE CELEBRATION OF THE CHRISTIAN MYSTERY

SECTION ONE-THE SACRAMENTAL ECONOMY

CHAPTER TWO-THE SACRAMENTAL CELEBRATION OF THE PASCHAL MYSTERY

Article 1-CELEBRATING THE CHURCH'S LITURGY

                   Day 163

IN BRIEF

1187 The liturgy is the work of the whole Christ, head and body. Our high priest celebrates it unceasingly in the heavenly liturgy, with the holy Mother of God, the apostles, all the saints, and the multitude of those who have already entered the kingdom.

1188 In a liturgical celebration, the whole assembly is leitourgos, each member according to his own function. the baptismal priesthood is that of the whole Body of Christ. But some of the faithful are ordained through the sacrament of Holy Orders to represent Christ as head of the Body.

1189 The liturgical celebration involves signs and symbols relating to creation (candles, water, fire), human life (washing, anointing, breaking bread) and the history of salvation (the rites of the Passover). Integrated into the world of faith and taken up by the power of the Holy Spirit, these cosmic elements, human rituals, and gestures of remembrance of God become bearers of the saving and sanctifying action of Christ.

1190 The Liturgy of the Word is an integral part of the celebration. the meaning of the celebration is expressed by the Word of God which is proclaimed and by the response of faith to it.

1191 Song and music are closely connected with the liturgical action. the criteria for their proper use are the beauty expressive of prayer, the unanimous participation of the assembly, and the sacred character of the celebration.

1192 Sacred images in our churches and homes are intended to awaken and nourish our faith in the mystery of Christ. Through the icon of Christ and his works of salvation, it is he whom we adore. Through sacred images of the holy Mother of God, of the angels and of the saints, we venerate the persons represented.

1193 Sunday, the "Lord's Day," is the principal day for the celebration of the Eucharist because it is the day of the Resurrection. It is the pre-eminent day of the liturgical assembly, the day of the Christian family, and the day of joy and rest from work. Sunday is "the foundation and kernel of the whole liturgical year" (SC 106).

1194 The Church, "in the course of the year, . . . unfolds the whole mystery of Christ from his Incarnation and Nativity through his Ascension, to Pentecost and the expectation of the blessed hope of the coming of the Lord" (SC 102 # 2).

1195 By keeping the memorials of the saints - first of all the holy Mother of God, then the apostles, the martyrs, and other saints - on fixed days of the liturgical year, the Church on earth shows that she is united with the liturgy of heaven. She gives glory to Christ for having accomplished his salvation in his glorified members; their example encourages her on her way to the Father.

1196 The faithful who celebrate the Liturgy of the Hours are united to Christ our high priest, by the prayer of the Psalms, meditation on the Word of God, and canticles and blessings, in order to be joined with his unceasing and universal prayer that gives glory to the Father and implores the gift of the Holy Spirit on the whole world.

1197 Christ is the true temple of God, "the place where his glory dwells"; by the grace of God, Christians also become the temples of the Holy Spirit, living stones out of which the Church is built.

1198 In its earthly state the Church needs places where the community can gather together. Our visible churches, holy places, are images of the holy city, the heavenly Jerusalem, toward which we are making our way on pilgrimage.

1199 It is in these churches that the Church celebrates public worship to the glory of the Holy Trinity, hears the word of God and sings his praise, lifts up her prayer, and offers the sacrifice of Christ sacramentally present in the midst of the assembly. These churches are also places of recollection and personal prayer.

Fitness Friday

 

In the movie “Christmas.” we witnessed the day “Ralphie” pronounced the big F word and as a result his mother in loving correction immediately inserted a bar of soap in “Ralphie’s” nasty mouth. Today let us look at our own nasty mouths. Caring for our teeth may improve your fitness more than we realize.

 

Clean Mouth-Ralphie![4]

Taking care of your teeth is important for all ages, but it’s especially important for older adults who may be at greater risk of oral health problems. Adults 65 and older are at an increased risk for oral cancer, gum disease and cavities. Luckily, it’s never too late to start taking better care of your teeth. With proper care, you can maintain — or even improve — your oral health as you age. Here are six things that help improve senior oral hygiene.

·         Cut Out Bad Habits-There are dozens of reasons to quit smoking or chewing tobacco, and the health of your entire mouth is no exception. If you’re currently using tobacco products, talk to your doctor about healthy methods for quitting. And as you likely remember from childhood, sugary foods like candy and soda can increase your risk for cavities. Committing to healthy eating isn’t just good for your heart and waistline — it’s great for your teeth, too.

·         Increase Your Fluoride Intake-Many municipalities have fluoride added to their drinking water, but you can also incorporate a fluoride toothpaste or fluoride rinse into your daily care routine, too. If necessary, you can even talk to your dentist about regular fluoride treatments.

·         Be Diligent About Your Teeth Cleaning Routine-It isn’t enough to simply brush your teeth twice a day, every day. Additionally, you should floss at least once per day and consider rinsing with an antibacterial mouthwash. Make sure to replace your toothbrush or brush head every three months.

·         If You Have Dentures, Clean Them Daily-Denture-wearers may have a different routine, but good oral hygiene is still a priority. Follow your dentist’s instructions for keeping your dentures clean so the rest of your mouth also stays clean and healthy.

·         Keep Your Mouth Hydrated-If you’re prescribed a medication that causes dry mouth, make sure you’re taking extra steps to keep your mouth hydrated. Drink lots of water and switch to sugar-free gum, if you’re a gum chewer. (Bonus: Sugar-free gum is better for your teeth, too!)

·         Go to the Dentist-regular checkups with your primary care physician, going to the dentist is the single best thing you can do for your oral health. Not only can your dentist give your teeth a good cleaning, but they’ll also be able to identify oral health problems before they progress and give you tips for taking care of your teeth. While the minimum recommendation is once per year, many older adults prefer to see their dentist every six months just to make sure everything is going well.

Corner-Be Humane-Humane Society est. 1954

·         How to celebrate Nov 22nd

o   Why not start by taking care of your pearly whites in honor of the unofficial National Flossing Day? Get that floss out and give your teeth some love.

o   After freshening up your smile, why not whip up a tasty cranberry relish to celebrate National Cranberry Relish Day? It’s a simple and delicious dish that you can enjoy solo or share with friends.

o   Next, consider giving back to those who can’t speak for themselves on Humane Society Anniversary Day. Volunteer at a local animal shelter or simply donate to help our furry friends.

o   Feeling a bit restless? Go for a ride on Go For A Ride Day! Hop on a bike, take a scenic drive, or even go for a leisurely walk around your neighborhood. Enjoy the fresh air and take in the sights around you.

·         Novena for the Twenty-fifth Day of every Month

o   This can be done up to 9 days before the 25th

§  I was born on the 24th I think I will do it then.


Today is my grandson Philip Matthew’s birthday age Three. Philip means “friend of horses” and Matthew “gift of God”. A Charger is a war horse. I pray God will give Philip the grace to be a

“Stallion of Love the Gift of God”.

Please pray for his and his father’s intentions Christopher Gabriel “Bearer of Christ with the strength of God”

May our King make use of them! El Cristo Rey!

Daily Devotions

 

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Increase in Religious and consecrated life.

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Iceman’s 40 devotion

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Operation Purity

·         Go to Mass

·         Rosary

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