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Friday, February 20, 2026

🎞️ Secrets of a Secretary (1931)

Starring: Claudette Colbert, Herbert Marshall
Studio: Paramount Pictures
Genre: Drama / Romance / Society Intrigue

⭐ Plot Summary

When her wealthy father dies unexpectedly, Helen Blake (Claudette Colbert) discovers he was secretly bankrupt. Overnight she falls from high society into the working world, taking a job as secretary to the refined but enigmatic Lord Danforth (Herbert Marshall).

As Helen navigates predatory suitors, shifting loyalties, and the collapse of her former life, she must discern who is trustworthy, who is using her, and what kind of woman she will become now that the illusions of privilege have been stripped away.

It’s a polished, emotionally intelligent Pre‑Code drama—quiet, sharp, and morally observant.

🎭 Cast Highlights

ActorRoleNotes
Claudette ColbertHelen BlakeSmart, poised, and emotionally grounded; early-career sophistication.
Herbert MarshallLord DanforthElegant, ambiguous, and quietly magnetic.
Georges RenaventHenriAdds texture to the social intrigue.
Ned SparksHaroldDry humor and world-weary commentary.

🕊️ Catholic & Moral Themes

Three themes rise naturally from the film’s arc:

1. Identity must be built on truth, not status

Helen’s fall from privilege exposes how fragile false identities are. Her dignity emerges only when she embraces reality rather than image.

2. Work is not a punishment — it is a path to integrity

The film treats labor with respect. Helen’s willingness to work becomes the crucible in which her character is refined.

3. Discernment is essential when power and charm intertwine

Lord Danforth’s intentions remain ambiguous for much of the story. Helen’s journey mirrors the spiritual need to test spirits, motives, and appearances.

🍸 Hospitality Pairing

A story about losing illusions and discovering authentic strength deserves a drink with elegance and restraint.

“The Quiet Resolve”

  • Dry champagne (a nod to Helen’s former world)
  • A splash of elderflower
  • A thin ribbon of lemon peel
Light, refined, and quietly strong — just like Helen’s transformation.

As we enter this Lenten season, I invite you to support and share the new Coffee with Christ audiobook, now available on Audible 


NIC’s Corner-

Now there were shepherds in that region living in the fields and keeping the night watch over their flock. The angel of the Lord appeared to them and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were struck with great fear. (Luke 2:8-9)

·         Start February 20 (or 21st in a leap year) to end on March 25, the feast of the Annunciation

·         Spirit Hour: 13 Irresistible Iced Tea Cocktails for Any Occasion

·         Religion in the Home for Preschool: February

·         Bucket List trip: Discover Europe by train

·         Catholic Recipe: Beef Portuguese Style

·         Total Consecration to St. Joseph Day 5

·         Try Panzanella Salad

·         Iceman’s 40 devotion

·         Get an indulgence

·         Operation Purity

·         How to celebrate Feb 20th

o   Love Your Pet Day

o   Friday Fish Fry Day

o   National Chip Week

 

NIC’s Rich/Poor tour-This one has a beautiful contrast: the smallest, wealthiest Catholic-rooted nation in the world versus one of the largest, poorest, and most spiritually dynamic.




💎 Luxembourg vs India

Cathedrals of Abundance / Chapels of Awakening

Luxembourg stands as the wealthiest nation on earth — a polished, compact Catholic inheritance shaped by finance, stability, and quiet prosperity. India, just above Papua New Guinea on the GDP ladder, is a vast, restless, spiritually volcanic land where Catholicism survives as a minority but burns with missionary fire. Together, they reveal the extremes of the Church’s global presence: abundance without urgency, and awakening without comfort.


🇱🇺 Luxembourg — Wealthy, Stable, and Culturally Catholic

GDP per capita (PPP): ~$140,000 USD (2024)

🧮 Why Luxembourg Ranks Highest

Financial Powerhouse: Global banking, investment funds, and EU institutions.

Political Stability: Low corruption, high trust, and strong governance.

Small but Efficient: A microstate with world-class infrastructure.

Multilingual Workforce: French, German, Luxembourgish, and English.

High Living Standards: Universal healthcare, generous social protections.

✝️ Catholic Landscape

Membership: ~70% nominally Catholic (though practice is low).

Structure: One archdiocese covering the entire country.

Heritage: Ancient abbeys, Marian shrines, and Benedictine influence.



Modern Reality: Cultural Catholicism dominates; active practice is modest.

Immigrant Presence: Portuguese Catholics form a vibrant portion of parish life.

⚠️ Challenges

Secular Prosperity: Wealth dulls spiritual urgency.

Cultural Catholicism: Identity without discipleship.

Vocations: Very few native priests.

Demographic Shifts: Immigration reshapes parish life.

🌿 Pilgrimage Cue

Luxembourg is a journey into cathedrals of abundance — where the faith is preserved in stone and statute, yet waits quietly for hearts to awaken beyond comfort.


🇮🇳 India — Vast, Poor, and Spiritually Explosive

GDP per capita (PPP): ~$9,000 USD (2024)

🧮 Why India Ranks Low

Massive Population: Wealth spread thin across 1.4 billion people.

Rural Poverty: Agriculture-dependent livelihoods.

Infrastructure Gaps: Uneven healthcare, education, and sanitation.

Economic Inequality: Urban tech hubs vs rural deprivation.

Social Complexity: Caste, religion, and regional disparities.

✝️ Catholic Landscape

Membership: ~20 million Catholics (~1.5% of population).

Structure: 174 dioceses across Latin, Syro-Malabar, and Syro-Malankara rites.

Missionary Fire: Schools, hospitals, and social outreach everywhere.

Liturgy: Rich inculturation — Indian music, dance, and vestments.

Witness: Catholics often lead in education, charity, and healthcare.

⚠️ Challenges

Persecution: Rising hostility in some regions.

Poverty: Limits parish resources and formation.

Migration: Youth leaving rural areas for cities or abroad.

Caste Tensions: Converts often face social backlash.

🌿 Pilgrimage Cue

India is a journey into chapels of awakening — where the Gospel is proclaimed in crowded streets, village huts, and ancient Eastern rites, carried by a Church that grows through suffering and service.


🕊️ Editorial Reflection

Luxembourg and India reveal the Gospel’s paradox in its sharpest form.
Luxembourg is wealthy beyond measure, yet spiritually quiet — a cathedral of abundance where faith rests in memory and heritage. India is materially poor but spiritually alive — a chapel of awakening where the Church grows through sacrifice, courage, and relentless service.

One has everything except urgency.
The other has nothing except fire.
Both are part of the same Body.

The Rich vs Poor Tour reminds us that the Church is not measured by GDP but by grace — and grace often burns brightest where comfort is scarce.

 


February 20 Friday after Ash Wednesday

Francisco & Jacinta Marto

Deuteronomy, Chapter 1, Verse 19

Then we set out from Horeb and journeyed through that whole vast and FEARFUL wilderness that you have seen, in the direction of the hill country of the Amorites, as the LORD, our God, had commanded; and we came to Kadesh-barnea.

 

Chapel of Holy Cross

Kadesh-barnea means “The holy place of the desert of wandering”[1] Sometimes the Lord asks us to go out into the desert for it is in the desert that we can; like Abraham and Moses, have an encounter with the living God. Deserts are fearful places and are full of rocks, pointy things, snakes, spiders and the indescribable beauty of God’s creation. By encountering God in the desert, we learn that the very same stones that somehow get in our shoes and make progress impossible are the very same stones that lay foundations, bridges, and roads.

 

In the desert we can search for God; avoid of our distractions and find Him. In the desert we can write out our sins and confess them to God. In the desert we can shed our old lives like the snake sheds its skin and find a new perspective for life. It is during this time alone with; He that IS; we make a spiritual change of clothes. In the desert we can make an all-night vigil and with the coming of the new day we can proclaim as in the Negro spiritual: When I fall on my knees with my face to the rising sun, O Lord, have mercy on me. For it is in the desert that we can quit deluding ourselves and be doers of the word and not hearers only. For it is in the desert with can find the strength to keep ourselves unstained by the world and find that pure and undefiled religion is to care for others in their afflictions.

Chapel of the Holy Cross[2]



 The chapel was inspired and commissioned by local rancher and sculptor Marguerite Brunswig Staude, who had been inspired in 1932 by the newly constructed Empire State Building to build such a church. After an attempt to do so in Budapest, Hungary (with the help of Lloyd Wright, son of noted architect Frank Lloyd Wright) was aborted due to the outbreak of World War II, she decided to build the church in her native region. The chapel is built on Coconino National Forest land; the late Senator Barry Goldwater assisted Staude in obtaining a special-use permit. The construction supervisor was Fred Courkos, who built the chapel in 18 months at a cost of US$300,000. The chapel was completed in 1956. The American Institute of Architects gave the Chapel its Award of Honor in 1957. In the sculptor's words, “Though Catholic in faith, as a work of art the Chapel has a universal appeal. Its doors will ever be open to one and all, regardless of creed, that God may come to life in the souls of all men (and women) and be a living reality.” In 2007, Arizonans voted the Chapel to be one of the Seven Man-Made Wonders of Arizona, and it is also the site of one of the so-called Sedona vortices (New Age Pagan stuff).

 

Today go on a hike pray for those afflicted with the Spirit of the world and for our Priests and religious. Below is the link for my hiking meditation: feel free to use it to go out to a deserted place to pray for those you care about.

Chapel Hike

Copilot’s Take

What the desert ultimately exposes is the quiet truth we spend most of our lives avoiding: evil is not first “out there,” but crouched at the thresholds of our own habits, compromises, and unexamined desires. Wandering becomes holy when we stop pretending and start confronting.



The wilderness teaches that God does not remove the serpents, the sharp stones, or the long distances; instead, He trains us to walk with a steadier step, to discern the hiss of the tempter from the whisper of the Spirit, and to recognize that every hardship becomes material for the road He is building beneath our feet. The desert is where we stop negotiating with the world’s illusions and begin consenting to God’s reality.

And places like the Chapel of the Holy Cross remind us that confrontation is not always loud. Sometimes it is a Cross anchored into the spine of the earth, a quiet defiance carved into stone. When you hike today, let the landscape teach you how to stand: not as a man bracing for battle, but as one who has already surrendered to the only One who conquers. Pray for those who have forgotten who they are, for priests who carry the weight of spiritual combat, and for the courage to let God strip away whatever keeps you from being fully His. The desert does not merely reveal evil — it reveals the strength God gives to face it.

Sts. Francisco & Jacinta Marto[3]

Between May 13 and October 13, 1917, three children, Portuguese shepherds from Aljustrel, received apparitions of Our Lady at Cova da Iria, near Fatima, a city 110 miles north of Lisbon. At that time, Europe was involved in an extremely bloody war. Portugal itself was in political turmoil, having overthrown its monarchy in 1910; the government disbanded religious organizations soon after. At the first appearance, Mary asked the children to return to that spot on the thirteenth of each month for the next six months. She also asked them to learn to read and write and to pray the rosary “to obtain peace for the world and the end of the war.” They were to pray for sinners and for the conversion of Russia, which had recently overthrown Czar Nicholas II and was soon to fall under communism. Up to 90,000 people gathered for Mary’s final apparition on October 13, 1917. Less than two years later, Francisco died of influenza in his family home. He was buried in the parish cemetery and then re-buried in the Fatima Basilica in 1952. Jacinta died of influenza in Lisbon, offering her suffering for the conversion of sinners, peace in the world and the Holy Father. She was re-buried in the Fatima Basilica in 1951. Their cousin, Lucia dos Santos, became a Carmelite nun and was still living when Jacinta and Francisco were beatified in 2000. Sister Lucia died five years later. The shrine of Our Lady of Fatima is visited by up to 20 million people a year.


Pardon Prayer taught by the Angel of Peace to Jacinta, Francisco, and Lucia in Fatima during his first apparition in 1916.

Prayer:

My God,
I believe, I adore, I hope and I love Thee!
I beg pardon for those who do not believe, do not adore, do not hope, and do not love Thee.
Amen.

This prayer was given by the Angel of Fatima to Lucia, Francisco and Jacinta.

Prayer:

Oh Most Holy Trinity,
Father, Son, and Holy Spirit,
I adore Thee profoundly.
I offer Thee the most precious Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity
of Jesus Christ, present in all the tabernacles of the world,
in reparation for the outrages, sacrileges and
indifferences by which He is offended.
By the infinite merits of the Sacred Heart of Jesus
and the Immaculate Heart of Mary,
I beg the conversion of poor sinners.
Amen.

February 20th Bls. Francisco Marto & Jacinta Marto[4]

Bible in a Year Day 233

Fr. Mike reflects on Jeremiah’s sorrow for the people of Israel while reminding us that the one thing we ought to find glory in, is in understanding and knowing God. In our reading of Ezekiel, we hear about God's ongoing promise to restore Israel. Today’s readings are Jeremiah 9, Ezekiel 39, and Proverbs 15:1-4.

Fitness Friday[5]

Top 10 Health and Fitness Tips from George Washington

George Washington was a man fit to be king. In fact, he was offered the crown by the victorious Americans after the cessation of the American War of Independence. He was one of the richest men in colonial America and a successful general who commanded a great deal of respect and followed the teachings of the Age of Enlightenment. While George refused to rule as a king, he was less hesitant to share his insights on matters relating to health, wealth, and politics. “I hope I shall possess firmness and virtue enough to maintain what I consider the most enviable of all titles, the character of an honest man.” George Washington 

·         Health Should Be a Top Priority

President George Washington believed that our health should be one of the most important priorities in life. President Washington really knew the value of health in our lives. Because without our health, it’s almost impossible to live life to the fullest. In order to enjoy and carry out day-to-day tasks, we need to be able to walk, breathe on our own, lift objects, have fun and so much more. Shortly before his passing, the former President wrote that “Health was amongst (if not the most) precious gift of Heaven, and without it we are but little capable of business, or enjoyment.”

·         Be An Active & Healthy Leader


Not many know that George Washington was actively involved in the military, serving for a span of over 40 years. It was his heroic and strategic service in the United States military where he became known as the Father of our Country. While in the military, George Washington was constantly on his feet, leading his people through battles, and persevering under pressure. Leadership is known to be associated with improved relationships, increased mood, positive outlook, increased self-confidence, and many more positive attributes. If you want to impact the health of other people, as well as yourself, then it’s best to lead by example. The types of social, emotional, and mental health benefits that being a leader can bring are endless!

  • Get Fit for Life’s Battles

According to the record books, George Washington was a strong, well-built man. He grew up with an athletic frame and with a 6’2 stature, he was described by his military partner as “175 pounds paddles with well-developed muscles, indicating great strength.” Another description of him by historian David McCullough explains how he stood out as a soldier and general for his strapping appearance. This type of build really helped him out when he had to fight his opposers or climb the Natural Bridge. Whether Washington was riding a horse for hours on end, or getting pierced by 4 musket balls, his great strength aided him through it all. You never know what daily battles you might have to face, but lifting weights is always a huge advantage to face what lies ahead!

  • Eat A Variety of Healthy Foods

America’s first President was able to enjoy many different cuisines because he was so wealthy. He ate fish such as sturgeon, along with many different fruits like cherries, and protein packed nuts. George Washington was fortunate to own many farms and facilities that enabled him to consume plenty of nutrient rich foods. Though you don’t have to be rich to be healthy! Fruits, vegetables, and different sources of protein can be bought at reasonable prices. These foods are jam-packed with nutrients that protect the heart against certain diseases, cancers and even strokes. They also aid in muscle growth and repair while strengthening the immune system.

  • Get Active Outside

George Washington took an interest in farming and American agriculture very early on. He was passionate about making the agriculture industry better for his people. This included a lot of rehabilitation on his farm on Mount Vernon. Although he wasn’t the one actually doing the farming, we can still learn from the health benefits that comes with this activity. Farming and gardening contribute to mental clarity and stress relief. According to the CDC, physical benefits associated with this moderate-intensity activity contribute to reductions in obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, depression, osteoporosis, and colon cancer.

  • Adopt A Furry Friend

Did you know that George Washington loved dogs and bred them? His journals were infused with numerous breeding accounts that included his own special “Virginia Hound” breed. Using these dogs, he indulged sometimes two or three times a week in one of his favorite pleasures: fox-hunting. Having a furry companion by your side greatly influences your health in many ways from boosting the immune system to increasing your quality of life. Take a look at all of the health and fitness benefits of owning a furry friend here

  • Go Dancing!

Not only did George Washington like to move on the battlefield, but he liked to get down on the ballroom floor too. During the American Revolution, balls were often held where the General “danced upwards of three hours without once sitting down,” General Greene stated in 1779. He was seen gracefully dancing with elation spread across his face. It’s no wonder that he was so content since dancing is known to boost mood and confidence! Dancing has many physical and mental health benefits. Those include improved heart and lung function, muscle tone, strength, endurance, as well as stronger bones, improved balance and social skills. Learn how busting a move can be incredibly beneficial to your health here!

  • Read A New Book

We all know the peaceful effects that reading can have on us during a rainy day. But surprisingly, reading has a lot of other health benefits for the average Joe. George Washington was an avid reader in his day. Owning more than 1,200 books, he turned to them to improve his political, militant, and agricultural prowess. You could say George Washington was self-educated from all the time he spent gathering the important information that made him so successful. According to York University researchers, reading helps boost brain power and memory, reduce stress, increase longevity, and even create feelings of empathy. So pick up a good book to expand your knowledge and increase your imagination!

  • Be Social

We all know how much healthy friendships benefit our mental health by keeping us happy and healthy. Not only was George Washington great at running the country, but he was an excellent communicator. He loved having company over for parties as well as connecting with the ladies! Besides dancing, you could find him engaging in meaningful conversations with his companions throughout the night. Many studies show that having people to connect with can keep your brain sharp and enrich your life by adding years to it! Friends also reduce stress, decrease risk of stroke, and can help beat the common cold!

  • Always Persevere

One of the most honorable things about former President George Washington was the fact that he was a man of character. His self-control in such a challenging time period allowed him his courage to shine through on the battlefield. He persevered under pressures of militant lifestyle, while keeping his integrity intact. Even though he failed many times, he stayed positive and kept pushing through. Resilience has a way of impacting our health for the better, and is especially required when things get tough. By staying positive and moving forward we improve our emotional, mental, and physical health. Happy emotions contribute to a healthier immune system! Not to mention the personal benefits such as increased confidence, motivation, and success.

Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul; rather, be afraid of the one who can destroy

 both soul and body in Gehenna.

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Reparations for offenses and blasphemies against God and the Blessed Virgin Mary

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Make reparations to the Holy Face

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Rosary



[5]https://www.healthfitnessrevolution.com/top-10-health-fitness-tips-george-washington/

[6] Sheraton, Mimi. 1,000 Foods To Eat Before You Die: A Food Lover's Life List (p. 892). Workman Publishing Company. Kindle Edition. 





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