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Wednesday, April 8, 2026

 

Smoke in This Life and Not the Next

The $1 Cigar Edition

Some days a man doesn’t need a premium stick — he needs a $1 gas‑station cigar, the kind that burns uneven, tastes a little rough, and reminds him he’s alive.
A cheap smoke teaches what the great fire means: purification is easier now than later, gentler now than later, chosen now rather than imposed.

Bourbon:
A $10 bottle — Evan Williams Green, Old Crow, or whatever’s on the bottom shelf.
Not refined. Not complex. Just honest.

Together they preach the same sermon:
“Formation doesn’t require comfort. It requires willingness.”

Purgatory in the Divine Plan (Short, Sharp, True)

Purgatory is not God’s anger — it is His refusal to let a man enter heaven half‑healed.
It is where memory is cleaned, identity is clarified, and the soul finally sees its story the way God always saw it.
It is mercy finishing the job.

A $1 cigar and a cheap bourbon say the same thing in their own rough way:
Let the small fire teach you now,
so the great fire can lift you later.


APRIL 8 Wednesday in the Octave of Easter

 Judges, Chapter 6, Verse 23

The LORD answered him: You are safe. Do not FEAR. You shall not die.

 

Unlike Gideon, whom this verse is about, most of us do not have an angel appear from heaven to tell us that we will not die and to not be afraid. Yet, we have something greater than an angel here; we have the Lord Jesus Christ telling us-Do not fear.

 

We are blessed because we are the receivers of the apex of God’s graces through Jesus Christ, His mother and the action of Divine Mercy. If you are afraid to start again or are discouraged by failure it is because you do not understand you can do nothing without Christ. Therefore, if you have sinned go to confession and receive His Body and Blood: being renewed. I remember in 2006 when I and my wife Mary were blessed with being able to make a trip to Israel. I was reflecting upon the grace I had received. I was thanking the Lord for I had touched the spot on the earth where He was born, and I had touched the spot where He had died, and I had touched the spot where He had ascended into heaven. I was prideful and thought how lucky I am. Then my Lord reminded me that a greater grace still awaits me and everyone in the Holy Eucharist. Be honest, humble yourself and make a sincere effort. Leave all else in His hands-saying: Jesus I Trust in You!

 

Pride wants immediate success. Be brave as Gideon and renew your intentions, make a resolution daily to do the will of God and seek to please Him.

Easter Wednesday Picnic Breakfast[1]

This Easter picnic is a festive way to spend time with your family and watch the signs of new life in nature, associated with the Resurrection.

"Come and breakfast!" That is the invitation Christ gave to Peter and John when they landed their great catch of fish, so mysteriously bestowed. They were elated and humbled and weary. It must have been a comfort to find a fire waiting on shore, a fish on it, and bread ready. To commemorate this Gospel of Easter Wednesday, why not a picnic breakfast in our home, or, better, out of it?

A party at this hour can be more fun than the usual afternoon-evening spreads, so hard on tired babies and so short on mothers' nerves. By now you can smell and feel spring throughout the land, even under the crusty layer of leftover snow. The voice of the turtle may not be heard, but all the mittens are lost, and nobody cares. In those sections of our country where spring has really arrived and the violets are lying in wait to be discovered, this can be a picnic of sudden beautiful surprises for everyone. Children who might never have noticed will be amazed that their mother isn't as old as they thought. She even knows how to turn a jump rope. If you live where winter hasn't yet given up the ghost, or if the little ones are really too little to do more than curdle the atmosphere, a picnic on the back porch (or basement, if you have that kind of basement) will be just as exciting to the children. Scrambled eggs with hot ham or bacon in buns wrapped in aluminum foil, individual boxes of dry cereal with companion boxes of raisins, thermoses of cocoa or orange juice — whatever it is in your house that makes a special breakfast should be on the menu. If we mothers are to be catchers of (little) men, we must look to our lures! City families might breakfast in a nearby park, even if it does shock the squirrels and pigeons. They just have to learn we humans can be carefree too. And our explanations to passers-by, openly curious at our cavorting, may be, for all we know, a chance for spiritual seed-sowing. For apartment-dwellers, patio-less and too far from a park, breakfast on the rooftop can be just as exhilarating as a penthouse cocktail party. More so, since Christ is the Host, and the small talk is never boring.

Divine Mercy Novena[2]

Sixth Day - Today Bring Me the Meek and Humble Souls and the Souls of Little Children.

Most Merciful Jesus, You Yourself have said, "Learn from Me for I am meek and humble of heart." Receive into the abode of Your Most Compassionate Heart all meek and humble souls and the souls of little children. These souls send all heaven into ecstasy, and they are the heavenly Father's favorites. They are a sweet-smelling bouquet before the throne of God; God Himself takes delight in their fragrance. These souls have a permanent abode in Your Most Compassionate Heart, O Jesus, and they unceasingly sing out a hymn of love and mercy.

Eternal Father turn Your merciful gaze upon meek and humble souls, and upon the souls of little children, who are enfolded in the abode of the Most Compassionate Heart of Jesus. These souls bear the closest resemblance to Your Son. Their fragrance rises from the earth and reaches Your very throne. Father of mercy and of all goodness, I beg You by the love You bear these souls and by the delight you take in them: bless the whole world, that all souls together may sing out the praises of Your mercy for endless ages. Amen.

Novena for the Poor Souls[3]

O Mother most merciful, pray for the souls in Purgatory!

PRAYER OF ST. GERTRUDE THE GREAT O Eternal Father, I offer Thee the Most Precious Blood of Thy Divine Son, Jesus, in union with the Masses said throughout the world today, for all the holy souls in Purgatory and for sinners everywhere— for sinners in the Universal Church, for those in my own home and for those within my family. Amen.

PRAYER FOR THE DYING O Most Merciful Jesus, lover of souls, I pray Thee, by the agony of Thy most Sacred Heart, and by the sorrows of Thine Immaculate Mother, to wash in Thy Most Precious Blood the sinners of the whole world who are now in their agony and who will die today. Heart of Jesus, once in agony, have mercy on the dying! Amen.

ON EVERY DAY OF THE NOVENA V. O Lord, hear my prayer, R. And let my cry come unto Thee. O God, the Creator and Redeemer of all the faithful, grant unto the souls of Thy servants and handmaids the remission of all their sins, that through our devout supplications they may obtain the pardon they have always desired, Who livest and reignest world without end. Amen.

WEDNESDAY O Lord God Almighty, I beseech Thee by the Precious Blood of Thy divine Son Jesus that was shed in the streets of Jerusalem, whilst He carried on His sacred shoulders the heavy burden of the Cross, deliver the souls in Purgatory, and especially that one which is richest in merits in Thy sight, so that, having soon attained the high place in glory to which it is destined, it may praise Thee triumphantly and bless Thee forever. Amen. Our Father. Hail Mary. Glory Be.

 THIS WE BELIEVE

PRAYERS AND TEACHINGS OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH

The Last Things[4]

The last things are death, judgment, heaven and hell.

Death is the separation of man's mortal body and immortal soul. It comes to all men as a result of original sin. It is a temporary state, for at the end of the world, all men shall rise again to be judged by Christ. Thus, the whole man, body and soul, will be rewarded for the good or evil that he has done, body and soul, in this life.

At the moment of death, each human person is judged by God based on his conduct in this life and goes immediately to his reward or punishment. Moreover, at the end of the world, Jesus Christ will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead. At that time, God's whole plan for the world shall be revealed, and his mercy and justice demonstrated.

Heaven is the eternal state of perfect happiness resulting from the face-to-face vision of God, which is the reward of those who have served Him in this life.

Hell is the eternal state of torment and despair which awaits those who, in this life, have freely rejected God and the happiness which He offers.

Before the end of the world, there will be an intermediate state called purgatory. There, those who are bound for heaven, but whose love for God is still marred by some imperfection, undergo a temporary period of purifying suffering. When this purification is complete, they are fit to enter God's presence and are admitted to the joys of heaven.

Dara’s Corner Try “Danish Smørrebrød

·         Phoenix Home & Garden’s Garden Tour
April 20

o   The pages of PHOENIX’s sister publication come to life as patrons enjoy exclusive access to a curated selection of the Valley’s most enchanting home gardens during this annual self-guided tour. Attendees will also have the unique opportunity to mingle with Phoenix Home & Garden’s editorial staff as well as architects and designers featured in the magazine. VIP, 9 a.m.-5 p.m.; GA, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. $85-$125, Various Valley locations, phgmag.com

·         30 Days with St. Joseph Day 20

·         Spirit Hour: Loire Valley Wine

·         Bucket List trip: Hokkaido

·         Red Cross Month

·         Soup

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Protection of Traditional Marriage

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Make reparations to the Holy Face

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan



[2]https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/liturgicalyear/prayers/view.cfm?id=1032

[3]Schouppe S.J., Rev. Fr. F. X.. Purgatory Explained


Devil and the Deep (1932)

A fever‑bright psychological drama where jealousy becomes a spiritual sickness, authority collapses under its own weight, and a man discovers too late that the enemy he feared was the one he carried inside his own heart.

Sources: imdb.com

🎬 Production Snapshot

Studio: Paramount Pictures
Director: Marion Gering
Release: 1932
Screenplay: Benn W. Levy (adaptation of the novel by Morris L. Ernst & Edna Ferber)
Stars: Charles Laughton (Cmdr. Charles Sturm), Tallulah Bankhead (Diana Sturm), Gary Cooper (Lt. Jaeckel), Cary Grant (Lt. Sempter)
Genre: Drama / Romance / Psychological Melodrama
Notable: One of the earliest films to showcase Charles Laughton’s volcanic intensity; features early performances by both Cooper and Grant; remembered for its claustrophobic submarine finale and its portrait of masculine authority gone spiritually blind.

🧭 Story Summary

Commander Charles Sturm rules his naval command—and his marriage—with a paranoia sharpened into certainty.
He sees betrayal everywhere.
He hears threats in every silence.
He believes his wife, Diana, is unfaithful long before she ever considers escape.

Diana, suffocating under Sturm’s suspicion, finds unexpected gentleness in Lt. Sempter—a man whose steadiness stands in stark contrast to her husband’s unraveling mind.

When Sturm discovers their connection, his jealousy detonates.
He orders Sempter transferred to a submarine—and then, in a fit of delusional vengeance, takes command of the vessel himself.

What follows is a descent into darkness:
a sealed metal coffin, a crew trapped under the sea, and a commander whose inner collapse becomes literal catastrophe.

As the submarine sinks, Sturm refuses rescue.
He chooses the grave he dug with his own fear.

Diana and Sempter survive—scarred, sobered, and freed from the tyranny of a man who mistook suspicion for strength.

🕰 Historical & Cultural Context

Released in 1932, the film reflects:

  • Pre‑Code Hollywood’s fascination with psychological extremes and moral ambiguity
  • A cultural anxiety about unstable leadership in the years between world wars
  • Early cinematic experimentation with confined, pressure‑filled environments
  • The rise of Charles Laughton as a new kind of actor—raw, volcanic, spiritually unsettling
  • A shift from silent‑era melodrama to sound‑era psychological realism

It stands alongside films like Rain (1932) and The Most Dangerous Game (1932) as a portrait of human nature under pressure—where the real danger is not the environment but the soul.

✝️ Catholic Moral Resonances

1. Jealousy as a Spiritual Disease

Sturm’s downfall is not military error—it is interior rot.
He believes his imagination more than reality.

Insight:
When a man ceases to govern his interior life, he becomes governed by his fears.

2. Diana and the Dignity of the Oppressed Soul

Diana is not a temptress—she is a woman trying to breathe.
Her movement toward Sempter is not sin but survival.

Insight:
The human soul bends under tyranny long before it breaks.

3. Authority Without Humility Becomes Violence

Sturm’s command style is absolute, unquestioned, and brittle.
His authority collapses because it is rooted in fear, not service.

Insight:
Leadership without humility becomes idolatry of the self.

4. The Submarine as the Interior Chamber

The final act is a spiritual allegory:
a sealed heart, no light, no air, only pressure.

Insight:
A man who refuses truth eventually suffocates in the world he built to protect himself.

5. Sempter as the Restored Masculine Order

Calm, steady, self‑possessed—Sempter embodies the masculine clarity Sturm lost.

Insight:
True strength is not thunder but steadiness under pressure.

🍷 Hospitality Pairing

Drink: “The Deep Calm”

A dark, pressure‑tempered cocktail:

  • Navy rum
  • A touch of blackstrap molasses
  • Fresh lime
  • A whisper of sea salt

Symbolism:

  • Rum = the depth of the human heart
  • Molasses = the heaviness of jealousy
  • Lime = the sharpness of truth cutting through delusion
  • Sea salt = the cost of clarity

Serve in a low, heavy glass—something that feels like the hull of a submarine.

Snack: Salted Dark Chocolate

Simple, bitter, bracing.

Symbolism:
The bitterness of Sturm’s interior life,
the salt of tears,
and the dark sweetness of truth finally breaking through.

Atmosphere

Low light
A single candle
A quiet room
A sense of pressure and release
A reminder that the deepest battles are fought in the unseen places of the heart.

🪞 Reflection Prompt

Where has fear begun to shape your imagination—
turning shadows into threats
and silence into accusation?

Who in your life offers the steadiness you resist—
the Sempter‑voice calling you back to clarity?

And what “submarine” have you sealed yourself inside—
a place meant for protection
that has become a chamber of pressure
and a warning from God
to rise toward the surface again?




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